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[spooKs]

Oh my fucking days.

Long story aside, the deadlines coming forward. It has to. Literally cant hold this out till end of exams. Tonight was so unbelievably intimate, but I held myself back all night despite so many caught moments just because I had it in my head that nothing can happen till after exams. Now I realise how fucking stupid that is.

Id like to think watch this space Exam friday, then we even discussed having an evening together where we don't work (as its our longest gap till the next exam).

Its madness though, if theres aaaanyone else around, we couldn't be any more "just friends". But when were together just alone, I swear it does just get so intimate.

I think im going to go for it. If it feels like the time friday night, thats it...

Going in straight for the kiss is a write off though I think. I actually asked her about a previous "boyfriend" of hers tonight thats been bugging me for a while. She went out with him...kind of, for a couple of months, and I swear they couldn't seem to be any more mismatched a couple if they tried. She's unbelievably nice and good hearted, and relaxed and down to earth...and hes just...not (or doesnt seem that way at least) Anyhoo, it turned out that it all kind of happened from him just kind of kissing her at one point, after they'd spent loads of time together revising (goddamit ) and shes not a fan of the direct approach.

Im literally going to say to her how I feel, and that ive never felt more like something is meant to happen...

...

Except what im going to say will be far more flowery than that, and as such is staying with me for the behind the scenes footage.

CATCH IT AND MORE ON "THIS RIDICULOUS FUCKING THREAD" - TOO HOT FOR SNH

Ahh sounds good wigbar, do the mash do the mash. Nah really, sounds like a good sitch right now! You can do no wrong>

I can't wait to cop the DVD of T4T the special features are gonna be FIRE......

[magma]

This thread's brilliant.

Go on Wiggles!

[the wiggle baron]

Oh yeah, forgot I wrote that

Really does have to happen though, last night was fucking ridiiiculous.

[cal]

Gwan Wiggles

[LEQ]

I wanna pre-order the special edition box set.

[the wiggle baron]

Ahhh now I keep thinking that it might not be such a good idea. We really do have no time at the moment, these exams are fucking insane...and defo dont want to put her in a position where her worrying about the exams might change how she reacts

Hmmmm Never actually known worse timing for anything...ever

[jrj2020]

Or maybe the direct approach just didn't lead anywhere with the ex because they were so mismatched - if you two are the same then ANY approach will work.

KISS KISS KISS

[tronn]

Ahhh now I keep thinking that it might not be such a good idea. We really do have no time at the moment, these exams are fucking insane...and defo dont want to put her in a position where her worrying about the exams might change how she reacts

Hmmmm Never actually known worse timing for anything...ever

haha dude your worst enemy is yourself. When she said nothing can happen after exams, she didnt say 'you cant kiss me until after my final' did she? Traditionally, people don't plan to kiss after they hand in a scantron.

You need to go for broke and just kiss her, dont be afraid it will screw things up cuz it wont, and if it does, at least you got a kiss out of it.

The more you keep waiting, the more you give the impression that your too kfchicken to make a move, and that's whatll put you deep in the friend zone.

If your still vibing and getting inimate moments like that, then just give her a quick one on the lips, you don't have to suck her face off. Likely shell want to keep going, then you can set your dinner date for after the exams

Whats the worst than can happen - she slaps you and hates you for life

Best that can happen - buttsecks

From what you've told us, I think the first scenario is more unlikely than the second, so go for it, and quit letting yourself talk you out of it

[megaladon]

Yeah, what he said. Do not make that little speech 'more flowery' whatever you do. Good luck.

[the wiggle baron]

lol dammit I swear its not that simple

Got to say i think girl I live with knows more information on the situation than shes letting on. Shes good mates with Auria, and I know shes been talking to her about the situation, but never really thought it my place to pry.

Anyhoo, I was talking to her (girl I live with) about how close I was to just going for it last night, and she did pretty bluntly just say dont. Said ive managed to wait this long, just give it another couple of weeks!

[the wiggle baron]

Yeah, what he said. Do not make that little speech 'more flowery' whatever you do. Good luck.

Ah but mate, half the fun is using words like "radiance" and "pert".

[kay]

Anyhoo, I was talking to her (girl I live with) about how close I was to just going for it last night, and she did pretty bluntly just say dont. Said ive managed to wait this long, just give it another couple of weeks!

Meh. Tension...lasting...too...long!!!!!

You realise you won't survive the Summer Blazedown yeah?

[the wiggle baron]

lol stoked for it

I think the story would make it all worthwhile.

OMG if she does come down for it, im so badgering pokes for a mid "in luv" shout out.

...cos to be honest, that would also mean that mala dropped in luv, which is just the sickest thing ever.

[::g-sus::]

So I gotta ask. How is her affection towards you? You can usually tell a lot from body language.

[the wiggle baron]

tricky one to judge as chiros, pretty used to getting pretty close to people anyway

I mean, practising a cradle-modification anterior thoracic on someone dun know

[tronn]

So I gotta ask. How is her affection towards you? You can usually tell a lot from body language.

This, for real. Do you guys do alot of touching, hands on knee/shoulder/arm/lower back stuff? Does she ever pull away when you get extra close, or does she just stay? Has she ever "accidentally" rubbed her brests against you? if shes doin all that, you should prob go for it, regardless of what she says

If your tentative, you can give her a quick peck on the lips the next time you two are having a moment, and if she calls you on it, just shrug, say 'i couldnt help myself', and change the subject. Nothing bad will come of it, only more good.

Man you better fkn succeed.

[kay]

OMG if she does come down for it, im so badgering pokes for a mid "in luv" shout out.

...cos to be honest, that would also mean that mala dropped in luv, which is just the sickest thing ever.

I reckon someone needs to print out stacks of this entire thread, hand 'em out, and have Pokes read out choice excerpts mid "in luv"...

...and tell Turkish to fuck off!

[::g-sus::]

If your tentative, you can give her a quick peck on the lips the next time you two are having a moment, and if she calls you on it, just shrug, say 'i couldnt help myself', and change the subject. Nothing bad will come of it, only more good.

THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


and mind you he said peck...not licking her face or introducing her to your tongue.

[the wiggle baron]

Oh blimey

Talk about confusion.

...aint no explanation time slackahs!