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Post by wubstep » Mon Aug 24, 2009 12:36 am

£10 Bag wrote:anybody got tips on still being mates with your mate when you're boning his ex?
:?

:?: :?:
I'm the 'mate' in a situation like this.

You're a tnuc. :o :lol:

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Post by fuagofire » Mon Aug 24, 2009 2:03 am

manray wrote:friends with a girl you still love. forget that shit.

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Post by DZA » Mon Aug 24, 2009 3:33 am

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bandshell wrote:try having your best mate fuck the girl you love(d) on top of you while your stoned out of your head in a tent in the middle of the countryside at a remote houseparty. :wink:
I fucked a girl my mate was deeply in love with while he was in the next room, his face when we both walked in the room after was classic, looked like he wanted to break down and cry and to top it off we raised him of quarter oz of bud and his phone :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Post by bandshell » Mon Aug 24, 2009 4:00 am

The_Dza88 wrote:
Therapist wrote:
The_Dza88 wrote:
bandshell wrote:try having your best mate fuck the girl you love(d) on top of you while your stoned out of your head in a tent in the middle of the countryside at a remote houseparty. :wink:
I fucked a girl my mate was deeply in love with while he was in the next room, his face when we both walked in the room after was classic, looked like he wanted to break down and cry and to top it off we raised him of quarter oz of bud and his phone :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Post by deadly_habit » Mon Aug 24, 2009 4:05 am

bandshell wrote:
The_Dza88 wrote:
Therapist wrote:
The_Dza88 wrote:
bandshell wrote:try having your best mate fuck the girl you love(d) on top of you while your stoned out of your head in a tent in the middle of the countryside at a remote houseparty. :wink:
I fucked a girl my mate was deeply in love with while he was in the next room, his face when we both walked in the room after was classic, looked like he wanted to break down and cry and to top it off we raised him of quarter oz of bud and his phone :lol: :lol: :lol:
Wow, I wish I was friends with you.
I dont
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Post by DZA » Mon Aug 24, 2009 4:09 am

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Post by wormcode » Mon Aug 24, 2009 4:09 am

What's even harder/weirder is still being friends with their family. Like one of my exes, I got to be friends with her brothers and even better friends with one of her cousins when we were dating. After it ended, I didn't talk to them for a while until her cousin called me up and we started hanging out and all that. So I get to hear all kinds of shit about her I wish I didn't, and see her occasionally.. but after a while I got used to it and don't let it bother me.

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Post by the acid never lies » Mon Aug 24, 2009 7:05 am

£10 Bag wrote:anybody got tips on still being mates with your mate when you're boning his ex?
:?

:?: :?:
Tough one... obviously every situation is different but when I was in this position, i was honest with my friend, and told him even though I wanted to talk it out with him and know how he felt about the whole thing, I was gonna keep seeing this girl regarldess. We both got very drunk and talked for ages. He hated me a little by the end of the conversation but also repected that i wasn't feeding him bullshit either. Took a lil while but soon after we were mates again.

Helps if you have genuine feelings for this girl otherwise you're a knob :wink:

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Post by magma » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:06 am

Try living with her. And her new bloke. And your new girlfriend.

We have funtimes.

Occasionally. :lol:
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Post by Dead Rats » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:08 am

woaahahh, wrong thread.
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Post by djelements » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:09 am

Dead Rats wrote:woaahahh, wrong thread.
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Post by Jak The lad » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:38 am

No thanks.

Ex's are ex's for a reason. :lol:
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Post by nousd » Mon Aug 24, 2009 9:41 am

mates?
perhaps literally.
but mates?
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Post by Shae » Mon Aug 24, 2009 10:53 am

Just broke up with a girl i was with for 2 years, hard times, but i couldn't keep putting up with her shit all the time, about me smoking 1 joint on a night, or goin down the studio, because she has only a few friends and i have several groups of friends I chill with from time to time, she thought I should spend all my time with her, I'm 20 and she's 18 ffs, let me just get my dick sucked...

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Post by nousd » Mon Aug 24, 2009 10:55 am

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Post by Shae » Mon Aug 24, 2009 11:26 am

wubstep wrote:
£10 Bag wrote:anybody got tips on still being mates with your mate when you're boning his ex?
:?

:?: :?:
I'm the 'mate' in a situation like this.

You're a tnuc. :o :lol:
I feel pretty bad, I friend left to move away, and the girl he was chattin to, not seein or goin out with or anything, he just had a thing for her, well anyway, morning after a house party, she asked for a ride home, jus me n her, way home she was flirtin like fuck, next day picked her up, went for a spliff, and bam, was the finest body I've ever seen, tanned, smooth, tightest snatch I'd ever witnessed, then next thing you know there's blood :o told her to get playing with herself so things don't happen like that next time, meetin her again tomorow night, see how it goes...

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Post by dark ambience » Mon Aug 24, 2009 5:51 pm

£10 Bag wrote:anybody got tips on still being mates with your mate when you're boning his ex?
:?

:?: :?:
Buy him a 8th and tell him to go smoke and be happy that your now boning his ex 8)

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Post by pdomino » Tue Aug 25, 2009 3:21 pm

JTL wrote:No thanks.
Ex's are ex's for a reason. :lol:

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Post by bright maroon » Thu Aug 27, 2009 3:39 am

I like how they will call you up and then spend the next week or so making you feel like oldtimes..you sleep with him, then don't here from him again for about 3 weeks...


Sometimes - smoking yourself silly is the better answer..

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Post by Dead Rats » Thu Aug 27, 2009 8:03 am

bright maroon wrote:I like how they will call you up and then spend the next week or so making you feel like oldtimes..you sleep with him, then don't here from him again for about 3 weeks...


Sometimes - smoking yourself silly is the better answer..
That must be an artistic spelling mistake.
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