need some advice/encouragement from you guys

[gnome]

Hahaha no ones said it yet so I will

Pics or stfu!

[bagelator]

ask her if she wants to have a go on your telescope

[fuagofire]

I don't claim to understand women at all, but from experience, I think some birds like to still feel as if they have it. If she's been in a relationship a while, she might put about a bit just to get that 'single' feeling a bit, but she won't leave her boyfriend. Believe.

or she'll leave her boyfreind but have lots of guys on the go, then theres usually a first in first out policy with these sorts of things. and for gods sake, unless she's your friend don't buy her anything unless your sure she's going to sleep with you.

[maori-nick]

yeah i did.

and i understand that this situation makes this girl look like a cheating whore... but shes really not like that. i really doubt she would let me make a move on her unless she ended it with her boyfriend first

This is as far as ive read.


I laughed at the paying thing. Been here though mate, she sounds like a cocktease, she might be bored with her fella but still wont rock the boat with him for some reason or another so is getting social kicks with you. Probably uses other one for sex.

Move on

[maori-nick]

Hahaha no ones said it yet so I will

Pics or stfu!

Oh and this isent 4chan.

Quiet down.

[the acid never lies]

don't buy her anything unless your sure she's going to sleep with you.

nothing screams 'loser' like trying to get sex in exchange for gifts

[fuagofire]

don't buy her anything unless your sure she's going to sleep with you.

nothing screams 'loser' like trying to get sex in exchange for gifts

well as a rule women like stnuc, so if you come over over-nice, you are probably not going to get laid. so if i am on a 'date' as everybody seems to want to call it these days, i will not buy the girl anything till i have a pretty good idea i'm in there . then i will. otherwise it is a waste of money. harsh but true.
sorry if that offends you.

[fuagofire]

don't buy her anything unless your sure she's going to sleep with you.

nothing screams 'loser' like trying to get sex in exchange for gifts

well as a rule women like stnuc, so if you come over over-nice, you are probably not going to get laid. so if i am on a 'date' as everybody seems to want to call it these days, i will not buy the girl anything till i have a pretty good idea i'm in there . then i will. otherwise it is a waste of money. harsh but true.
sorry if that offends you.

plus the girl the o.p is on about sounds like a bit of a pricktease and would deserve that metatlity over the whole thing imo

[the acid never lies]

don't buy her anything unless your sure she's going to sleep with you.

nothing screams 'loser' like trying to get sex in exchange for gifts

well as a rule women like stnuc, so if you come over over-nice, you are probably not going to get laid. so if i am on a 'date' as everybody seems to want to call it these days, i will not buy the girl anything till i have a pretty good idea i'm in there . then i will. otherwise it is a waste of money. harsh but true.
sorry if that offends you.

Maybe you misunderstood me? That wasn't a dig at you - I wasn't implying that you are a loser who tries to buy sex with gifts

However I wouldn't say it's because 'all women want stnuc' - it doesn't scream self confidence if you can't rely on your character to get to know someone and instead have to bribe somebody into bed. That's just my opinion

[gettingcolder]

haha, reminds me of something Philip Larkin once said:

"Don't you think it's ABSOLUTELY SHAMEFUL that men have to pay for women without being ALLOWED TO SHAG the women afterwards AS A MATTER OF COURSE? I do: simply disgusting. It makes me ANGRY. Everything about the ree-lay-shun-ship between men and women makes me angry. It's all a fucking balls up. It might have been planned by the army, or the Ministry of Food." [emphasis in the original, btw]

"I don't want to take a girl out, and spend circa £5
when I can toss off in five minutes, free,
and have the rest of the evening to myself.“

(Philip Larkin, quoted in: Martin Amis, The War Against Cliché, p. 160)

[86.]

stopped reading replies after page 2...maybe it's been said already, but fit women got fit friends...who are most probably interesting...so strategize, ya get me? find a way into her circle of female friends.

and no 3some unless it's two women and you. fuck this DP shit. shits grimey.



edit:... but be careful, find out what the boyfriend looks like. If he looks like a twinkie, proceed. if there's any possibility he could scrap with you AND win...back off a bit.

[CollisionCourse]

my advice is
all or nothing
stop asking for advice on an online forum and do something

[the acid never lies]

haha, reminds me of something Philip Larkin once said:

"Don't you think it's ABSOLUTELY SHAMEFUL that men have to pay for women without being ALLOWED TO SHAG the women afterwards AS A MATTER OF COURSE? I do: simply disgusting. It makes me ANGRY. Everything about the ree-lay-shun-ship between men and women makes me angry. It's all a fucking balls up. It might have been planned by the army, or the Ministry of Food." [emphasis in the original, btw]

"I don't want to take a girl out, and spend circa £5
when I can toss off in five minutes, free,
and have the rest of the evening to myself.“

(Philip Larkin, quoted in: Martin Amis, The War Against Cliché, p. 160)

that Larkin

[delta labs]

haha im in quite a similar situation !

[the artful dodger]

Give gift's for a shag? Sex is the gift for her, atleast we both have fun and not just one of us.

[dreamizm]

Out to all the women talkin sense and reality. This aint DOA.

[dr ddd]

Out to all the women talkin sense and reality. This aint DOA.

indeedio

this thread makes me sad

[gravytron]

Just cut your substandard penis the fuck off bro. You're hopeless, asking for dating advice on the internet. a fucking dubstep board no less... laughing at you

[*grand*]

Truth be told:

She probably Was going through a bad patch and wanted some attention.

She trusts you enough to relax and have fun with you.

She does like you but is not permitted to escalate her feelings due to her current situation.

Feel what you feel for her but at the same time feel something for someone else; she won't grate you for this, she may even help you, if she doesn't or plays the girl down then it is definitely a sign.

Just be real, by continuing to be her friend, but don't tell her how you feel. One day in the future, so long as your relationship stays the way it is you will sleep with her if her relationship goes pear shaped. Know shes potentially yours and use that knowledge to encourage you to find someone else; he'll if a cute girl likes you whats stopping another one?

Grand

[jazzamataz]

Dude, having been in a similar situation for nearly a whole year - stay the fuck away.
She has a man - let him deal with the cockteasing/cheating headache. It's not your problem.

DO NOT BECOME CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HO. Just coz she sticks a cape on you does not mean you can
now fly off buildings.

She hasn't got the brains to end one relationship that's going badly before trying to start a new
one it seems. She'll never be confident enough to take charge of a situation herself and ultimately
you'll never be able to trust her IF you eventually get to the stage where you're the boyfriend.
If she can do it to that guy, she can do it to you.


Edit: Womenfolk are scandalous these days.