Ok, I've been single wayyyyy too long now...

[jazzamataz]

...just over six months or so.

I need some tips to get back into the game - My situation has changed, as I've moved back home from Uni.
and I guess the main problem is, after 3 odd years away from my home town - I don't actually know anybody
any more. Old friends have moved on/out of the area, aside from one or two, so there's less chance of meeting
people through old networks...

Another problem is, there isn't so much choice 'on tap,' around my way, but I'm willing to give any decent suggestions a try...

[knell]

hit up shows and bars, make new friends and build up a few good wingmen.

being single isnt a bad thing... i dont get into a relationship unless i can see myself marrying that person... otherwise theres no point imo

have fun! dont stress being single... from my experience the less you act like you're looking, the more opportunities arise

[Project_B]

Invite people to go out to town, instead of waiting to be invited.

Go to somewhat classy venues - dont hit the cheap student shit.

Get a nice pair of shoes.

Be confident!

Social network - seriously just pest like fuck on facebook etc.

get involved!

[jazzamataz]

hit up shows and bars, make new friends and build up a few good wingmen.

being single isnt a bad thing... i dont get into a relationship unless i can see myself marrying that person... otherwise theres no point imo

have fun! dont stress being single... from my experience the less you act like you're looking, the more opportunities arise

Haha, dude, my problem is I'm far too happy being single!
I think in the same manner - there's no point unless there's potential, however, the river has been running dry as of late,
and I'm painfully aware that I'm on the wrong side of 25.


I'm also wondering how I'm going to start building social networks again, considering I ditched a lot of people
(mainly because I outgrew them) when I left home and I still think the same things about a lot of "mates," I used to hang out with.

[herbalicious]

Get a nice pair of shoes.

This.

[helix]

Get a nice pair of shoes.

This.

Then go get some more.
And then some more.

[herbalicious]

Get a nice pair of shoes.

This.

Then go get some more.
And then some more.

On it.

[helix]

Get a nice pair of shoes.

This.

Then go get some more.
And then some more.

On it.

[herbalicious]

Get a nice pair of shoes.

This.

Then go get some more.
And then some more.

On it.

[helix]

Oi my shoes are sick and you know it!

[djake]

6 months aint long, try 5 years

[kay]

have fun! dont stress being single... from my experience the less you act like you're looking, the more opportunities arise

That's pretty completely different from my experience.

[meer]

I've been single for about a year. I haven't before since I was like 14. I'm not amazing at dealing with people yet.

[knell]

have fun! dont stress being single... from my experience the less you act like you're looking, the more opportunities arise

That's pretty completely different from my experience.

i understand what you mean.. i worded that poorly...

basically i meant that you shouldnt come across as desperate

[grimesceneinvestigation]

6 months aint long, try 5 years

i have the t-shirt you use as your avatar

and


6 months indeed isn't long,
people always seem to have the idea they should no matter what be together with someone else or at least take every opportunity smiling at them.

at my old job i remember this guy, who had been together for years with his girlfriend, get there with cards for his newly born.
a month after the baby's birth they broke up and two weeks later he was dating a chick that worked there aswell (who was also in the process of getting divorced by the way)
from that moment she started fatting up, as a relationship ment security and settlement.

needles to say that relationship didn't last long either, as it was out of security, nothing near love or real affection.

[dubmatters]

I've been single for years.

Hasn't stopped me from putting my penis in every razzer I encounter.

Relationship's are overrated, casual sex ftw.

No wifey shit and no moaning

Life couldn't be better.

[badger]

they look like girls shoes

[kay]

have fun! dont stress being single... from my experience the less you act like you're looking, the more opportunities arise

That's pretty completely different from my experience.

i understand what you mean.. i worded that poorly...

basically i meant that you shouldnt come across as desperate

[*grand*]

Go to a Gay bar. Scope a cigarette hag. Shouldn't take you no more than a month at the rate of one outing a week.

Grand.

[jaydot]

Is it acceptable to go out on your own to pull?

I dunno. Do people on here do it..