Angry When Drunk

[dubloke]

a good friend of mine (a woman) was pissed out of her mind a few nights ago.. I walked her home from the bar, which barely worked because she couldnt really keep her balance, and was resistant when I kept trying to get her to go towards her home. Anyway, after getting her to her house and her not needing anything else, I left to walk to my own home. I got a text from her the next day, and she was in the hospital. She punched out some windows in her house, cutting some tendons and some major arteries. Her arm is all bandaged up so she hasnt seen how bad it really is yet, and they wont tell her how many stitches she got, except they were external and internal stitching. Sometimes its better to just not drink if you react to it poorly.

fucking hell! yeah maybe it is better. I'm two completely different people when im drunk and sober. When I'm sober I'm really shy and dont talk much but when im drunk im pretty much the opposite. I've always been told its not good to drink if it chages your personality, but I swear everyone changes when they're drunk?

edit: internal stitches

people change but not to the extent theres a total polar shift in their character.
the way i see its like there are personality floodgates, alcohol opens them a bit and lets the more suppressed side of you through. could be a deeper issue than 'alcohol makes me angry', perhaps its more like 'im truly deeply angry, and alcohol unleashes that side of me'.
but i dont know you so im not gonna draw any conclusions.

I dont really think I have anything to be that pissed off about though?

edit: fuck it, got exams in a few weeks so no going out, hopefully it wont happen after that

[jameshk]

Im usually fine when drinking. However, if i drink vodka and stella together, i turn into an absolute tnuc.

[nowaysj]

You know, to a certain extent you are a man, with a genetic heritage of barbarity which is less and less useful, but this behavior still seeks to find expression. I was like this in my youth. Never really like truly angry, but pretty damn violent. Definitely alcohol related.

I'll say this, those fires do die down as you age. You'll probably always have a quick temper. May occasionalyl end up with holes in your walls. I patched one about a year ago, and that was the first one in many years.

Some people just can't drink bro, you might be one of them. Vigorous daily exercise can definitely help. Just got back from a 5 mile hike through the hills, and I'm pretty damn mellow.

But you definitely have a problem, and need to start figuring it out. Its source, and ways to handle it. If you truly can't handle it, I do recommend at least talking with a professional about it. I personally wouldn't take pharmaceuticals for it. Weed also, especially if started young, can really interrupt the development of people's personalities, I think on a biological level. I've known a lot of young people that have been fucked by smoking too much weed too young. Yeah a miracle happy drug for some, maybe, but it can have very adverse effects for some people. Maybe you?

Also, you're hair will prolly fall out pretty early! Wooo Hoooo! Manhood!

[wolf89]

I tell you what. Training in martial arts three times a week seems to be slowly making me less quick to get pissed off weirdly

[cityzen]

I tell you what. Training in martial arts three times a week seems to be slowly making me less quick to get pissed off weirdly

Because you have less to fear now.

[nowaysj]

Because energy is flowing through your body more fluidly now.

[kingGhost]

one time while drinking too many of these



i threw and empty one at a hummer h2 that was driving down the road.

mickey's is the only thing that ever really got me angry drunk

[wolf89]

Comes in a weird ass bottle that's for sure

[kingGhost]

Comes in a weird ass bottle that's for sure

looks and feels like a hand grenade. funny cause around here that's the only way they come in 12 oz size. other than that you have tallboys (24oz) or 40oz. it's beer for people who want to fuck shit up.

[kingGhost]

But you definitely have a problem, and need to start figuring it out. Its source, and ways to handle it. If you truly can't handle it, I do recommend at least talking with a professional about it. I personally wouldn't take pharmaceuticals for it. Weed also, especially if started young, can really interrupt the development of people's personalities, I think on a biological level. I've known a lot of young people that have been fucked by smoking too much weed too young. Yeah a miracle happy drug for some, maybe, but it can have very adverse effects for some people. Maybe you?

Also, you're hair will prolly fall out pretty early! Wooo Hoooo! Manhood!

Yes. Chemical dependency definitely stunts emotional and mental maturity. Crazy how many "grown" people still have the mentality of 18 year olds because they just party too much.

[cityzen]

it's beer for people who want to fuck shit up.

Isn't that the company that has sponsered the UFC 'tale of the tape'?

[wolf89]

Is it?

hahaha

[cityzen]

[kingGhost]

too fitting

[dubloke]

I'll say this, those fires do die down as you age. You'll probably always have a quick temper. May occasionalyl end up with holes in your walls. I patched one about a year ago, and that was the first one in many years.

Some people just can't drink bro, you might be one of them. Vigorous daily exercise can definitely help. Just got back from a 5 mile hike through the hills, and I'm pretty damn mellow.

yeah im alot better now than I was when I was younger, because it used to happen all the time back then even if I wasnt drinking. I dont think its that I cant handle my drink because theres plenty of times where I drink a similar amount and dont get angry, but I reckon there must be a trigger, like if something sort of pisses me off it will escalate as I get drunker. maybe I just need to stop getting pissed off with little things, or stop over analysising stuff (alot easier said than done though!)

and the martial arts thing is a good idea as well, i'll look into it

[dubloke]

doesnt the guy on the right look like a nerdy ginger kid. I'm sure he's not but that photo does make him look like one!

[cityzen]

doesnt the guy on the right look like a nerdy ginger kid. I'm sure he's not but that photo does make him look like one!

Yeah, he was quite neeky. Pearson sub'd him in the 1st round of that fight! TEAM UK!!!!!

[Kochari]

I'm a sloppy drunk. My girlfriend complains that I spend too much time telling my friends how much I love them and they're like, totally amazing maaan. She gets jealous.

[Basstronomer]

My mate told me yesterday about this meditation technique (can't remember the name) where you do it the first time with somebody who knows about it. this person will help you 'create' a peaceful & quiet place in your mind and apparently, you can 'access' (relax instantly?) this place just by pressing your tongue against your teeth. This might be an option but I dunno much about it.

[wolf89]

I tell you what. Training in martial arts three times a week seems to be slowly making me less quick to get pissed off weirdly

Because you have less to fear now.

I do wonder about that.

My mate pete is a black belt i'n jeet kune do and specialises in wing chun. He is the most chilled person I've ever met. Can't imagine him ever getting into a fight