''nice guys'' of okcupid

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 4:04 pm

Terpit · Post by **Terpit** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 4:09 pm

Please make another thread of madness divot/maroon

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 6:40 pm

TheTornado · Post by **TheTornado** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 7:36 pm

the 'friendzone' does not exist. be nice to people. women are people. don't expect sex for being a decent person. all of this is just men's fragile sense of entitlement to women's bodies and egos being bruised when they realize that, hey, it's not that they're nice - it's the opposite. they are dense fucking assholes who don't realize they're pieces of shit / not "nice" at all.

garethom · Post by **garethom** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 8:46 pm

The Tornado wrote:the 'friendzone' does not exist.

It does to the attractee, just not the attracter.

TheTornado · Post by **TheTornado** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:07 pm

yeah and those people are stupid and deserve to die alone

volcanogeorge · Post by **volcanogeorge** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 9:14 pm

TheTornado · Post by **TheTornado** » Fri Dec 28, 2012 10:19 pm

j/k yall

hasezwei · Post by **hasezwei** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:12 am

i think the concept of friendzone is misunderstood
it's not that a guy thinks that by being a good friend/nice person he somehow 'earns' the right to have sex with the girl and her denying that would be unfair or something. maybe thats how people see it nowadays but thats definetly not what we meant when we said that word back in school

its more that thing where you fall in love with a girl and you confess it to her and she's like 'i only see you as a friend' and you, being in love n shit, couldnt take not being with her in some way at least so you're like okay.jpg-guy whilst clinging to the hope that one fateful day she will notice that no matter how many 'asshole' boyfriends she's had in the time you didnt get over her you were always there for her and then you'll end up together bla bla bla bla bla

or you dont even tell her about it cause you dont have the balls or whatever

its probably some weird long-ass manga story's fault, sounds pretty much like the stereotypical male japanese psyche to me.

thing is, being friendzoned is pretty much always the guy's fault. maybe somewhere in the world there's a chick who exploits poor nice guys but thats besides the point.

and its not impossible to end up in a relationship with a girl you've been good friends with, well not unless you have no self-esteem at all.

Ficticious · Post by **Ficticious** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 1:48 am

kingGhost wrote:
lovelydivot wrote:If you can't get through my friend zone...
than you can't get through at all.

Seriously - If I can't sit and chat shit with you over a plate of nachos than what is it?

A potentially humiliating pain in the ass - That's what.

I don't know you, but I bet you I could hold a 3 hour conversation on nacho's 5$.

Anyways, What OP said. That is what friendzone is.. And not that I actually like this song, but here's a perfect explanation.

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:21 am

Let's talk about the bad guys for a minute...

What are they supposed to be..?

Some kind of diabolically irresistable sundae...like cream and pure sex sauce or something?

The kind of shit that makes girls buy switch blades?

Do I have to go out and - violently coerse my claim on your junk to prove my love?

Don't make me do that...

Ficticious · Post by **Ficticious** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:39 am

lovelydivot wrote:Let's talk about the bad guys for a minute...

What are they supposed to be..?

Some kind of diabolically irresistable sundae...like cream and pure sex sauce or something?

The kind of shit that makes girls buy switch blades?

Do I have to go out and - violently coerse my claim on your junk to prove my love?

Don't make me do that...

No, simply the bad guys are found more attractive possibly because they act like dicks (Which seems like they are having more fun than the boring old sit there and take walks type of man) and are more interesting to the ladies in the way of muscles and actually "Trying" to go after ladies in a more dominant way. (In the most extreme of cases)

Of course as a man myself, I don't really see the reason to be a dick at all to women, etc. I mean shit, Why act like a jerk to someone you love? Isn't the whole logical reason to support eachother and all that stuff? Oh wait, I guess most people aren't logical!

I write poetry, produce music, I'm a dork. And I talk a lot, but I never, yes legitmately can say never have acted like an asshole towards any type of woman. I simply just avoid those confrontations. I don't really understand it myself. but if you can shed some light on this It'd really clear it up for why ..

Woman love to be treated like shit.

lovelydivot · Post by **lovelydivot** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:53 am

Ficticious · Post by **Ficticious** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 2:53 am

I'm going to use one of those videos as a sample in a song at some point in time.

It's all your fault.

hasezwei · Post by **hasezwei** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 3:33 am

Ficticious wrote: I write poetry, produce music, I'm a dork. And I talk a lot, but I never, yes legitmately can say never have acted like an asshole towards any type of woman. I simply just avoid those confrontations. I don't really understand it myself. but if you can shed some light on this It'd really clear it up for why ..

Woman love to be treated like shit.

bullshit.
be self-confident, don't let your insecurities be visible to everyone in the room, approach a girl casually, make her laugh, there you go. congratulations, if she actually likes you theres nothing stopping you now.
you dont even have to look particularly good (though not being hideous helps), better appreciate that fact.

no women except for the ones with daddy issues want to be treated like shit.
but no women want a guy who's intimidated by them either.

at least thats my assumptions, i'm no woman as far as i know

Phigure · Post by **Phigure** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 4:09 am

Ficticious wrote:No, simply the bad guys are found more attractive possibly because they act like dicks (Which seems like they are having more fun than the boring old sit there and take walks type of man) and are more interesting to the ladies in the way of muscles and actually "Trying" to go after ladies in a more dominant way. (In the most extreme of cases)

it's not about acting like a dick, it's about having confidence (which happens to manifest itself as being a dick in some people)

you really think women enjoy being treated like shit? comes across as if you got burned really badly once and now youre bitter about it

skell1ngton777 · Post by **skell1ngton777** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 9:53 am

there's confidence and then there's arrogance.. people often confuse the two i suppose..

Rappone · Post by **Rappone** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 10:02 am

some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.
Anyway, confidence, make her laugh, be yourself, always keep it obvious that you're interested. And anyway friend zones are reversible in many cases.

Genevieve · Post by **Genevieve** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 10:27 am

Ficticious wrote:
lovelydivot wrote:Let's talk about the bad guys for a minute...

What are they supposed to be..?

Some kind of diabolically irresistable sundae...like cream and pure sex sauce or something?

The kind of shit that makes girls buy switch blades?

Do I have to go out and - violently coerse my claim on your junk to prove my love?

Don't make me do that...
No, simply the bad guys are found more attractive possibly because they act like dicks (Which seems like they are having more fun than the boring old sit there and take walks type of man) and are more interesting to the ladies in the way of muscles and actually "Trying" to go after ladies in a more dominant way. (In the most extreme of cases)

Of course as a man myself, I don't really see the reason to be a dick at all to women, etc. I mean shit, Why act like a jerk to someone you love? Isn't the whole logical reason to support eachother and all that stuff? Oh wait, I guess most people aren't logical!

I write poetry, produce music, I'm a dork. And I talk a lot, but I never, yes legitmately can say never have acted like an asshole towards any type of woman. I simply just avoid those confrontations. I don't really understand it myself. but if you can shed some light on this It'd really clear it up for why ..

Woman love to be treated like shit.

You've basically just admitted that while you've never directly been an asshole towards women (which in itself is doubtful, everyone has been an asshole at one point of their lives, including to someone of the opposite sex or someone they've been into), you're still thinking some really assholish things about them. Doesn't that only make you passive-agressive?

Girls don't like to be treated like shit, but people in general treat each other like shit. Especially when you're younger. Being able to compromise and make 1 decision as 2 people is something that takes a fucking long time to learn. These same girls that (occasionally) get "treated like shit" by their boyfriends also (occasionally) "treat them like shit".

And you're only focusing on the negative. When a girl complains about her boyfriend, you think to yourself 'oh I'd never do that', but if that same girl spends 90% of the time talking about how awesome her guy is, do you even pay attention or do you just brush it off because you'd rather believe that no guy other than you can be great?

garethom · Post by **garethom** » Sat Dec 29, 2012 11:20 am

lol at people that think girls only like to be with dicks.

People that think that just think they're dicks because girls like somebody else and not them.

Petty.

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