''nice guys'' of okcupid

[JTMMusicuk]

nice guys of DSF

theyre probably all laughing at us on OKCupid

[volcanogeorge]

No, simply the bad guys are found more attractive possibly because they act like dicks (Which seems like they are having more fun than the boring old sit there and take walks type of man) and are more interesting to the ladies in the way of muscles and actually "Trying" to go after ladies in a more dominant way. (In the most extreme of cases)

it's not about acting like a dick, it's about having confidence (which happens to manifest itself as being a dick in some people)

you really think women enjoy being treated like shit? comes across as if you got burned really badly once and now youre bitter about it

naiiiiiillllled it

the fedoras one is jokes as well btw

[hugh]

people who moan about not being able to talk to girls cos they are "nice guys who always get ignored" get on my fucking tits. They don't talk to you cos you don't talk to them, simple as that. Same with any relationship with any person whether they be a man or a woman.

[lovelydivot]

I went out with this guy once - I had a pretty severe crush on...

and I wanted to ask him all these questions - because I didn't really know him that well..

But I was afraid .....

...and this is where the dick head boyfriend starts to look good again

Because even though you know he's going to do this stupid thing, and that stupid thing...
At least you can talk to him...say anything without worrying

[lovelydivot]

I guess that's a level of intimacy you get to by dragging each other through the mud a few times...


but really - I expect that kind of security with a friend as well...






I still had to get rid of him though...

[Ficticious]

Let's talk about the bad guys for a minute...

What are they supposed to be..?

Some kind of diabolically irresistable sundae...like cream and pure sex sauce or something?


The kind of shit that makes girls buy switch blades?



Do I have to go out and - violently coerse my claim on your junk to prove my love?

Don't make me do that...

No, simply the bad guys are found more attractive possibly because they act like dicks (Which seems like they are having more fun than the boring old sit there and take walks type of man) and are more interesting to the ladies in the way of muscles and actually "Trying" to go after ladies in a more dominant way. (In the most extreme of cases)

Of course as a man myself, I don't really see the reason to be a dick at all to women, etc. I mean shit, Why act like a jerk to someone you love? Isn't the whole logical reason to support eachother and all that stuff? Oh wait, I guess most people aren't logical!

I write poetry, produce music, I'm a dork. And I talk a lot, but I never, yes legitmately can say never have acted like an asshole towards any type of woman. I simply just avoid those confrontations. I don't really understand it myself. but if you can shed some light on this It'd really clear it up for why ..

Woman love to be treated like shit.

You've basically just admitted that while you've never directly been an asshole towards women (which in itself is doubtful, everyone has been an asshole at one point of their lives, including to someone of the opposite sex or someone they've been into), you're still thinking some really assholish things about them. Doesn't that only make you passive-agressive?

Girls don't like to be treated like shit, but people in general treat each other like shit. Especially when you're younger. Being able to compromise and make 1 decision as 2 people is something that takes a fucking long time to learn. These same girls that (occasionally) get "treated like shit" by their boyfriends also (occasionally) "treat them like shit".

And you're only focusing on the negative. When a girl complains about her boyfriend, you think to yourself 'oh I'd never do that', but if that same girl spends 90% of the time talking about how awesome her guy is, do you even pay attention or do you just brush it off because you'd rather believe that no guy other than you can be great?

Oh you guys, You fail to read in between my lines.

No I'm not thinking assholish things I'm simply wondering why some girls like to be treated like shit. I focus on the positive most of the time, it;s not like I've never personally dated (i'm 22 man yeah I'm young but I've still had long relationships on my side too). My statement is more simply. "I think dicks are more attractive to woman because they seem more self confident for the most part.)

And for the record Im usually the one listening to them talk about how their boyfriend is, usually met them and half the time they are pretty cool. But not everyone. And god no, Im definately no "Oh IM the perfect boyfriend," Actually, I choose not to date for my own personal reasons, but this isnt about me this is about...

This V

There are some woman who are addicted to be treating badly, for that feeling. Answer me why that addiction appears.

Everyones raging hard at that statement. I'm definitely not bitter about things either. That's simply fact.

Also I think I just got half my questions answered regardless.

[Ficticious]

some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.
Anyway, confidence, make her laugh, be yourself, always keep it obvious that you're interested. And anyway friend zones are reversible in many cases.

Thank you, someone actually reads further into what I say Missed this post.

[Phigure]

some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.

do you even realize how incredibly sexist this is?

you really think women in abusive relationships enjoy it?

[Ficticious]

some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.

do you even realize how incredibly sexist this is?

you really think women in abusive relationships enjoy it?

Normally no one "thinks" they enjoy it, just seem addicted to it. Otherwise why don't they leave when they had the option? You can be addicted to pain it seems.

Blinded by love? Hoping he would change? Some girls really believe they can "Fix" a man and their relationship so maybe they get addicted to that. That's my assumption at least, and what I've heard countless times.

There's nothing saying how he hates woman or how he's judging them. That's just some facts.

You gonna tell me some woman don't like to have their male counterpart be a "male" and sometimes get lost in the fact that maybe they took their own thoughts a little too far at times?

Remember, we're using the term's some not all

Ps. sure most of us on this thread treat our woman fine and don't have anything against woman.

[Phigure]

You gonna tell me some woman don't like to have their male counterpart be a "male" and sometimes get lost in the fact that maybe they took their own thoughts a little too far at times?

thats the most absurd thing i've ever heard. being dominant and masculine doesnt mean abusing them... and what thoughts are you talking about? i dont ever think about doing that. guess im not a man

[Ficticious]

You gonna tell me some woman don't like to have their male counterpart be a "male" and sometimes get lost in the fact that maybe they took their own thoughts a little too far at times?

thats the most absurd thing i've ever heard. being dominant and masculine doesnt mean abusing them... and what thoughts are you talking about? i dont ever think about doing that. guess im not a man

I'm speaking in the perspective of people who do. Remember this is a discussion on the "bad guys"

[ehbes]

someone has been listening to that "Love the way you lie" song a bit too much imo....

[Ficticious]

someone has been listening to that "Love the way you lie" song a bit too much imo....

ayways chill out phigure, its just a discussion man

[Phigure]

i'm perfectly calm, you're just kind of a dick

[Ficticious]

i'm perfectly calm, you're just kind of a dick

Or maybe you just assume I'm one. its k phigure, we all go through hard times *pat pat*

[Terpit]

I gave up reading halfway down this page.
Wow.

[Ficticious]

I gave up reading halfway down this page.
Wow.

u wot m8?

[Terpit]

There's some genuinely unpleasant sexism going on, I think, I didn't read properly coz it was all so stupid

[Ficticious]

There's some genuinely unpleasant sexism going on, I think, I didn't read properly coz it was all so stupid

Now wheres that one face...with that guy leaning to the side. Can't find that image.

[Terpit]

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