bela wrote:say you're hired for a very competitive position -- if a man gets the job, it's assumed that he's got the best credentials and experience, and his physical features don't really come into the picture, attractive or not.
if you're a hot chick, there's a certain sense of paranoia that you've gotten the job just because you're attractive (or that others will think so), and there's added pressure to prove yourself as more than just a pretty face.
if you're a not so hot chick, there's a sense you have to compensate for your lacking 'femininity' that gives your attractive female peers an advantage and, again, go the extra mile to prove yourself.
You skipped a pretty important step; getting the job. If a man and a woman are both equally capable (same age, experience, education, intelligence), she will probably get the job. A man would hire her because he'd like to fuck her, a woman would hire her because girl power. So her gender is her upperhand and what got her the appreciation she needed for the job. And there will be a lot of men and less attractive women that would resent her for it because they're well aware of how attractiveness and gender matters. I don't really care about the resentment, because I'm telling you right here; If I was a hot girl, I would exploit my attractiveness and sex appeal to get my way too. Fuck it, if mother nature gives you a shortcut, you'd be an idiot not to use it.
So what you've posted isn't that women, especially attractive ones, are less appreciated. It's that society is aware of their upperhand.
If you had another job opening and two men applied who were both equally well suited for the job with identical in skills, and one dude was hot and the other was average. The average looking guy would always lose as well. Just to be clear in how much attractiveness matters regardless of gender. Just like if Seth and Nina both walked down the street naked without anyone knowing who they are. More people would assume she's talented, smart and sophicated than Seth. And that Seth is a fat, lazy, ugly, slob. People just have the prejudices over appearance.
bela wrote:same goes in music -- scour a bunch of event reviews and you'll find that in the vast majority of pieces on female musicians/DJs, her appearance is mentioned in some way or form (whether it's blatantly judging attractiveness or not), whereas similar pieces on male DJs/musicians will focus purely on the music on show. female musicians and DJs i'd imagine feel an extraordinary amount of pressure to be taken seriously and not as a mere image. there's a tumblr somewhere dissecting various female artist reviews but i can't find it at the moment...
They do feel pressure, I understand that. But they do feel it because outside of music, they're already more appreciated than men are. These women don't
need to do music to be appreciated. If men in dance music didn't
do anything, no one woudl care about them.
My argument isn't about women vs men in a particular field or profession. But women vs men in society in general. Women in
general are more appreciated than men are, because men lost out when it came to sexual selection. A woman doesn't have to prove her worth as a person by doing art or a demanding job, while a man's entire worth to society is decided by their competence in a particular field. And this difference explains why women are more harshly criticized when they enter fields dominated by men.