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le_hardcore_chiefus · Post by **le_hardcore_chiefus** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:41 pm

just found out yesterday that some i know is getting divorced after like 3-4 years or somet, hes like 28, she was 25/6

then tonight another lad i know seems to want a divorce from his wife. hes 27, and shes 22, been married just shy of 2 years

what the fuck is goin on, are people that stupid to get married so young , if they`re obviously not that sure

it sorta like can cost a lot of money which goes to waste, lot of heart ache etc

whats every1`s views on this

great thread i know

ps been tryin to post this 4 the last hour, round of applause

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:46 pm

I'm inclined to agree about young marriage, cause most of those marriages are based on lust.

LUST = BAD MARRIAGE M'KAY.

legend4ry · Post by **legend4ry** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:54 pm

I'll stick with my view of..

"You don't have to sign a piece of paper to say you love someone"

My Aunt and Uncle have been engaged for 20 something years...

They haven't got married because they say.. "We're already in love, why spend money we don't have and sign a piece of paper to prove something we already know..

le_hardcore_chiefus · Post by **le_hardcore_chiefus** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:55 pm

i vision getting married when i`m say maybe 40 ish or somet, obviouslky can really put a date on it , but i`m in no rush like

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:55 pm

i don't plan to ever get married. first of all the ONLY reason to is certain legal and tax things... it means nothing else unless u convince yourself it does. changes nothing. second... i don't reckon i'll ever be sure enough that i want to spend forEVER with someone. that's a very long time.

legend4ry · Post by **legend4ry** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:56 pm

Delendi wrote:i don't plan to ever get married. first of all the ONLY reason to is certain legal and tax things... it means nothing else unless u convince yourself it does. changes nothing. second... i don't reckon i'll ever be sure enough that i want to spend forEVER with someone. that's a very long time.

Swear if you're with someone for 2 years+ you get classed as being married?

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:57 pm

innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:58 pm

dubluke wrote:innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper

yeah, but the elderly tend to be traditionalists when it comes to marriage, eh bluke?

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:59 pm

DJelements wrote:
dubluke wrote:innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper
yeah, but the elderly tend to be traditionalists when it comes to marriage, eh bluke?

hahaha, i see what you did there

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 9:59 pm

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:00 pm

dubluke wrote:innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper

Helps if the bits of paper aren't injunctions.

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:01 pm

Shonky wrote:
dubluke wrote:innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper
Helps if the bits of paper aren't injunctions.

yeah you can teach me all about them innit mate?

boomnoise · Post by **boomnoise** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:02 pm

the argument being that it's not about a piece of paper.

it's a symbolic act and a way of proclaiming a couple's love for each other.

it's not necessary by any means, especially outside of a religious context,
but it's still a way of declaring and acknowledging love.

it doesnt' change anything but there is an arguement for it. if you're in love why wouldn't you want to legally tie yourself to this person.

as for divorce and young marriage - i don't think it's especially to do with age.

at any one time you can only ever think you're in love, or at least know it as much as possible. what's to say it could never be superseded by something greater, more intense? nothing. but you have to believe in what you feel at the time and act on that whether that means marriage, co-habitation or whatever.

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:03 pm

dubluke wrote:
Shonky wrote:
dubluke wrote:innit for me loving someone don't have to be ratified by a bit of paper
Helps if the bits of paper aren't injunctions.
yeah you can teach me all about them innit mate?

Never admit anything is pretty much all you need to know.

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:04 pm

yeh i'm void of all hope for relationships... lol

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:05 pm

Delendi wrote:yeh i'm void of all hope for relationships... lol

join the club, we have badges...they say "I'm lonely

"

the crying guy even moves on the badge

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:05 pm

sorry to be a downer

jred · Post by **jred** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:06 pm

i said and thought all these ^^ things in the past im now married with two kids .

spooKs · Post by **spooKs** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:07 pm

Legendary wrote:
Delendi wrote:i don't plan to ever get married. first of all the ONLY reason to is certain legal and tax things... it means nothing else unless u convince yourself it does. changes nothing. second... i don't reckon i'll ever be sure enough that i want to spend forEVER with someone. that's a very long time.

Swear if you're with someone for 2 years+ you get classed as being married?

my parents never married, they've been together over 30 years.

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Sun Mar 30, 2008 10:08 pm

i'm not lonely, i'm EXTREMELY happy!

my cousins parents aren't happy. they're on about 25 years now i guess. they're much happier than MY parents

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