Marriage

badger · Post by **badger** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 2:58 pm

z.u.bee wrote:no, that word is enough to put anybody off of living, let alone marriage!!

only because you realise that you never have a chance of being with me. i don't blame you for not wanting to live in a world without a badger on your arm

boomnoise · Post by **boomnoise** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:06 pm

first dsf wedding sweepstake anyone?

forensix (mcr) · Post by **forensix (mcr)** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:07 pm

Shonky and Blizzard

corpsey · Post by **corpsey** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:11 pm

I know a few girls of my age (23) who have got engaged recently

That'll serve them right for not shagging me

Jubz · Post by **Jubz** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:19 pm

One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.

forensix (mcr) · Post by **forensix (mcr)** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:26 pm

Jubscarz wrote:One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.

bet you're sad that one got away?

z.u.bee · Post by **z.u.bee** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:26 pm

Jubscarz wrote:One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.

it seems that a lot of girls think this way, whatever happened to equality???
i wanna stay at home and look after the kids...
ie: watch ricky lake..

Jubz · Post by **Jubz** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:36 pm

forensix (mcr) wrote:
Jubscarz wrote:One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.
bet you're sad that one got away?

It brings a tear to my to think of we could have achieved together, alas we never had the chance.

misk · Post by **misk** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 3:47 pm

Jubscarz wrote:
forensix (mcr) wrote:
Jubscarz wrote:One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.
bet you're sad that one got away?
It brings a tear to my to think of we couldn't have achieved together, alas we never had the chance.

FIXED

i've been with the same woman for about 6 years... not getting married, ever.

slothrop · Post by **slothrop** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:11 pm

Misk wrote:i've been with the same woman for about 6 years... not getting married, ever.

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now, (although we've only actually lived in the same town for about two of those) - personally I'm not bothered - I see marriage as an excuse for a party with some tax benefits, but she's definitely against the idea, so it's probably not going to happen.

FSTZ · Post by **FSTZ** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 5:31 pm

as a recent divorcee (today is the 1 year anniversary of the finalization of all papers)

I can say that I will never be married again.

it's not for me

some people live for it and aspire for it

I say...

DON'T DO IT!

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:15 pm

this thread has too many....."ive been with my girlfriend for about 5 yr's now..."

and not enough

"so anyhoo im driving her body out to the pier tonight"

you cant be happy still after 5 years surely not???...maybe commitment suits some people and not others

shonky · Post by **shonky** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:19 pm

deamonds wrote: you cant be happy still after 5 years surely not???...maybe commitment suits some people and not others

Maybe they just chose better

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:22 pm

z.u.bee wrote:
Jubscarz wrote:One of my exes got engaged last year, I think the stretch of her ambition is to get married, have a kid and stay at home with it, thus avoiding having to work.
it seems that a lot of girls think this way, whatever happened to equality???
i wanna stay at home and look after the kids...
ie: watch ricky lake..

staying at home to take care of the fam and home doesn't make someone any less equal. managing a household and raising children is really a full time job, plus some. and if you can afford it, it's WAY better for the kids. I, for one, do not want my children raised by a nanny while i'm at work all day. it's all about having the choice to live your life as fulfills you anyway. and if taking care of your family is what fulfills you, then that's that.

datura · Post by **datura** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:24 pm

badger wrote:
z.u.bee wrote:no, that word is enough to put anybody off of living, let alone marriage!!
only because you realise that you never have a chance of being with me. i don't blame you for not wanting to live in a world without a badger on your arm

Trying to gnaw it off?? SMH

amykamala · Post by **amykamala** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:25 pm

Shonky wrote:
deamonds wrote: you cant be happy still after 5 years surely not???...maybe commitment suits some people and not others
Maybe they just chose better

after 5 years of being with one person, that person really becomes your home in a lot of ways. more time spent in intimacy together is just a much deeper level of experiencing someone & yourself. i think at that point its beyond commitment, its just an organic energetic connection

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:47 pm

deamonds wrote:maybe commitment suits some people and not others

yeh this is really true. and those who commitment suits, which is an enormous majority, do NOT get this. it's like they just don't believe it, it can't possibly be true.

deamonds · Post by **deamonds** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:17 pm

Delendi wrote:
deamonds wrote:maybe commitment suits some people and not others
yeh this is really true. and those who commitment suits, which is an enormous majority, do NOT get this. it's like they just don't believe it, it can't possibly be true.

ahhh!!! a fellow normal person....

i am definately a freak because i havent got a girlfriend, i mean, why the fuck havent i already got a girl pregnant and even thought about marriage...at 18

my friends really are stupid

delendi · Post by **delendi** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:21 pm

i was fine at relationships til i was 17ish... then for a while i thought i was goin thru a phase of bad luck. it's been 5 years now... i'm just not a relationship person.

FSTZ · Post by **FSTZ** » Mon Mar 31, 2008 7:30 pm

Delendi wrote:i'm just not a relationship person.

I recently gave myself over to this train of thought...

then I found an awesome girl to spend my quality time with

f**king universe is strange

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