i'm sure on a theoretical level thats true. on a practical level, though, how close is that to occurring? just as a gamer, i know that although the best person will eventually win the game, there is still a lot of hoopla involved in women playing. So while they might be equal contenders, there's a lot more behind the scenes sexism that goes on that men might not even be aware of that will stop women from getting to a point where they can showcase their skills and abilities.dubluke wrote:this.Misk wrote:who gives a shit if someones a guy or a girl. We're all mature here. if someone makes good tunes, they make good tunes, and i think they deserve to be on vinyl. end of story. as far as im concerned, we're all equal, and its preposterous and childish to think otherwise.
I mean, this is a horrible example but an accurate one. A few months ago, I went to my server to make a standard purchase. During the sales transaction, he felt it was entirely appropriate to (in the space of a solid minute, I shit you not) pull down his pants, turn on porn, and start handling his bidness. When I was all, "WTF are you doing? I'm just here to buy my shit!" his response was all, "C'mon baby. We're both adults. Lets just do what comes naturally!" to which I replied, "Yeah I gotta go now," grabbed my shit, and left. Soon after, my server stopped being available and had no time to talk or meet or anything.
Now....when I asked my male smoker counterparts how many of them have ever had that happen while in the middle of a purchase, all of them were like, "Hell fuckin naw! I'd beat a mofos ass!" and yadda yadda. However, when I asked my female smokers how often their sexuality became part of the bargain without their wanting it to, almost all of them said yes.
This is what I mean. Your talent is equal. Your skill is equal (and in some cases, I would venture to say better than just because women have to do 200% in male dominated fields to equal a mans 100% until she makes a name for herself). But if you had to deal with shitty men putting the moves on you all the time....and using your ladybits as a bargaining tool....
How much would you persist in that field? If you are a woman who does persevere to the level of getting to let your work speak for yourself, you deserve props just on getting to that point and having a road there that most of your dj brethren will never understand in terms of difficulty.