Would you pay for sex?

[gorillabearbear]

thought that might be the case;

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amsterdam_ ... rafficking

this makes for some pretty distressing reading.

[cityzen]

The RLD in Amsterdam at night is the most depraved place i've ever been, and i've been to some proper off-key places. It is gang run, and it's only when you open your eyes and look around at anything other than the spectacle of women in windows that you realise what an absolute hell hole it is.
Beautiful during the day though (architecture, atmosphere, the canals etc.)

[nousd]

In theory it's all mature females making an informed choice,
in reality it's largely about poverty, family splits, drug addiction & exploitation.
And after awhile, to maintain a shred of self-respect, comes her rationale to keep going.
The relatively few beautiful girls willingly fucking their way through university for $1000 a night
are far outnumbered by trafficked Asian & E European women indentured to pay their fares back.
The gigilos catering to the pearl necklace set might seem to have an enviable gig
but there's a lot more desperate bum boys being reamed for pizza money & compensatory haze.

But tbh, yeah, I'd pay for sex
if I was sure she was acting willingly,
wasn't under 18,
we found each other passably screwable,
she was disease free,
I could afford it,
I didn't have a wife or girlfriend,
my right hand was mangled,
and I got the massage first.

I try to learn from my mistakes.

[magma]

Not to sort of change the direction of the thread but...

At the University of Delaware...there was this house of female college students
that were turning tricks to pay for college..

It really made me furious to think of the nice girl..
spending hours working at the coffee shop for minimum wage..
running up a huge student loan...

knowing these vixen whores were living it up..paying nothing..on their own hours etc.

It's just wrong.

Sorry - I said it. I don't like that shit.

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Didn't you once also say that a girl you knew deserved it when she got raped? I think we've established that you have some pretty weird sex issues.

One of my best friends was a pornstar for a few years (actually, she was my first ever girlfriend too, but that was a loooong time ago!) ... she had a great time, and didn't hurt herself or anybody else. If you're cool with it, you're cool with it... I don't understand how someone can sit on the sidelines and moralise about girls who use natural gifts to their own advantage... especially when they use a large proportion of their posts on here to demonstrate that they have pretty fucked up sexual morality and attitude themselves.

Independence is the key and honesty is the key to that. We have to be honest and open about our demand for sex as a society - some people will always be willing to buy and sell sex. If you're not interested, fair enough (I'm not especially, either), but muttering about "vixen whores" from the back of society is seriously ugly behaviour. Live and let live.

[bright maroon]

Didn't you once also say that a girl you knew deserved it when she got raped? I think we've established that you have some pretty weird sex issues.

I NEVER SAID THAT - I SAID EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE

some people are slow to pick up on sarcasm...

Look - Some people think that chubby people are retarded WHY?
because everyone knows that retards love cake...

so polarization in persepective is going to happen

but honestly - I DO NOT trust the opinions of alot of people..
especially those of particularly deluded females..
you can only hope that my opinions are easily mutable in light of
..my responsible desire to be empathetic..
and I have that..so I am not the enemy here.

[Siderealdb]

[bright maroon]

..I understand the orgy

..as a concept


Do I trust people to function within it with as much equality as they feign...absolutely not.

[bright maroon]

In my mind - this isn't an issue of morality and sex...

this is an issue of beating a fascist and unnatural vanity..and the sex industry is one of it's biggest afronts...


So we may be talking about completely different things...a total failure of language.

[Mr Hyde]

.....but you haven't had sex for 13 years, I think your views on it might be a little skewed away from the norm

[frank grimes jr.]

I'm twelve years old and what is this?

[bright maroon]

...it's the fat ugly girl that is yourself...

Keep paying for it..

[frank grimes jr.]

I'm married, I pay for it and more every day of my life.

[bright maroon]

[nowaysj]

[mrdii]

I'm married, I pay for it and more every day of my life.

Very good point, whether joking or not

Go to the suburbs and you'll see a number of things. Very rarely you will see a Thai bride. More commonly you will see an ugly man with a hot wife, who is essentially a more 'classy' version of the Thai bride, due to being more updated to Western culture and having less of a social stigma than the Thai bride. Basically, it's my opinion that there's not much different between a Thai bride and a 'Real Orange county housewife' style partner, they're both after the dollar, probably don't 'love' their husband and the only real difference (as already stated) is the second wife is more accustomed to Western life due to being a native.

However, I also realise they're both miles away from prostitution. I don't mind it myself - would never do it, but I don't frown upon it as much as most people. The act itself is harmless, but as said - in 90% of cases it's got huge repercussions such as drugs, poverty and extortion. That's why I think it should be legalised, then both parties would benefit hugely.

[incnic]

x

[faust.dtc]

The one on the far right is fit...

[youthful_implants]

...you know

I'm not hating on girls who find themselves - for whatever reason..
caught up in the lifestyle..

I'm just sad that as a society we are accepting this and can't offer alternatives..

I think there is a big difference between women who choose to do it and are empowered by that choice, which is a lifestyle choice - and those who feel that they have no choice.

And that, for me, is where the level of acceptability is drawn.

I wonder, really, whether the majority really are in the former category. This book has quite a lot to say about the whole thing, although it draws largely on anecdotal evidence and is a bit emotive about it. Personally I never would pay for sex, I think.

Was in Amsterdam recently and we wandered through the red light district, I found it surreal, disheartening and quite frankly horrible, the entire thing - but at the same time you have to recognise the obvious benefits of legalising and controlling it, in terms of women's safety and so on, although I wonder whether it might legitimise pimps or something, never really seen any sciency literature about the effect of it. A lot of people defend prostitution by saying that it's about the woman's choice and so on, and to a certain extent I agree, I suppose, but I can still dislike it; I wouldn't really go and yell at a prostitute for being a prostitute, but I think I would think less of any bloke who paid for it.

Also, allow people saying "oh we all pay for it in one way or another" because it's bullshit. Am I also "paying" for companionship/friendship if I buy my mate a pint? When I got together with my partner it was because we were attracted to each other and because we enjoyed each others company, not because I bought her a meal.

no I dont think the majority are in the former category either, at all, but there's no doubt there are "escort" services which are effectively high-class, highly expensive forms of prostitution where the women are usually attractive, having fun, making a lot of money etc etc.

If I was being ungenerous I would say the kind of men who pay for sex are probably emotionally retarded and have issues with their own sexuality and understanding of women.

[bright maroon]

men visiting prostitutes is about as old fashioned as women boiling potatos...
so I'm not up tight or wound up about it or anything...

I just think it's boring and stupid.

[Fused Productions]

men visiting prostitutes is about as old fashioned as women boiling potatos...
so I'm not up tight or anything...

I just think it's boring and stupid.

I liek boiled potatoes