Dry love life thread

rojparody · Post by **rojparody** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:43 pm

DJelements wrote:It's not that my standards are too high, it's that attractive girls' standards aren't low enough.

Exactly how I feel. I am the first person to pick flaws in myself, and it seems to emphasise them to others...

But I agree with a lot of the sentiments in this thread. I had a great time with my ex, with nearly 2 years of bliss... and she decided she didn't love me anymore.

After the way it ended (my emotional attachment to her, and her not-so-quite-mates fucked me over something rotten), I'm just happy to be living my own life.

I have friends telling me to go out and get laid, and even one offering to set me up with people, but I just can't see the point in the effort (for a lack of a better term).

I'm one of the (dying?) breed of people who like to take things slow, see how it progresses, and even go on dates (yes... the concept still exists) before going any further...

Anyway... rant over

Need to go get food!

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:47 pm

RojParody wrote:
DJelements wrote:It's not that my standards are too high, it's that attractive girls' standards aren't low enough.
Exactly how I feel. I am the first person to pick flaws in myself, and it seems to emphasise them to others...

But I agree with a lot of the sentiments in this thread. I had a great time with my ex, with nearly 2 years of bliss... and she decided she didn't love me anymore.

After the way it ended (my emotional attachment to her, and her not-so-quite-mates fucked me over something rotten), I'm just happy to be living my own life.

I have friends telling me to go out and get laid, and even one offering to set me up with people, but I just can't see the point in the effort (for a lack of a better term).

I'm one of the (dying?) breed of people who like to take things slow, see how it progresses, and even go on dates (yes... the concept still exists) before going any further...

Anyway... rant over Need to go get food!

Amazing. Me and you both, brother. Girls these days just seem to wanna fuck, and I'm actually not a huge fan of it... I'd rather be with a serious girl for a year than have 365 one night stands. Evidently I'm a minority. Also, my ability to clean myself up and wear a nice suit has come in useful before.

gena · Post by **gena** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:51 pm

DJelements wrote:
RojParody wrote:
DJelements wrote:It's not that my standards are too high, it's that attractive girls' standards aren't low enough.
Exactly how I feel. I am the first person to pick flaws in myself, and it seems to emphasise them to others...

But I agree with a lot of the sentiments in this thread. I had a great time with my ex, with nearly 2 years of bliss... and she decided she didn't love me anymore.

After the way it ended (my emotional attachment to her, and her not-so-quite-mates fucked me over something rotten), I'm just happy to be living my own life.

I have friends telling me to go out and get laid, and even one offering to set me up with people, but I just can't see the point in the effort (for a lack of a better term).

I'm one of the (dying?) breed of people who like to take things slow, see how it progresses, and even go on dates (yes... the concept still exists) before going any further...

Anyway... rant over Need to go get food!
Amazing. Me and you both, brother. Girls these days just seem to wanna fuck, and I'm actually not a huge fan of it... I'd rather be with a serious girl for a year than have 365 one night stands. Evidently I'm a minority. Also, my ability to clean myself up and wear a nice suit has come in useful before.

x3 (although I'm female)

parson · Post by **parson** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:51 pm

i'm w/ u fellas

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:52 pm

Judging by shit on tv like *any* dating show, I think four is all of us... Damn.

step correct · Post by **step correct** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:54 pm

It, sorta sucks spending the night with a gal when you know she'll be in some other dude's bed the next....and think nothing of it. Which is the worst part to me.

badger · Post by **badger** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:56 pm

DJelements wrote:Judging by shit on tv like *any* dating show, I think four is all of us... Damn.

heh me as well

gentlemen (+gena) of the forum unite!

__________ · Post by **__________** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:56 pm

girlfriends are for gays.

aint found a girl i want a proper relationship with for a while.

problem is, when you do find one, they're usually taken haha

still, can't complain. this is the way of life. i'd rather be single than stuck with a bitch

djelements · Post by **djelements** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:58 pm

I met one... I'm stuck with Just Friends™ though.

badger · Post by **badger** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:59 pm

£10 Bag wrote:i'd rather be single than stuck with a bitch

very very true

gena · Post by **gena** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:03 pm

DJelements wrote:I met one... I'm stuck with Just Friends™ though.

I met one too... a prik...

rojparody · Post by **rojparody** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:04 pm

Ah... the maturity of this company spreads throughout! Glad to see there are some like minded people out there, and that it's not just me alone in this crazy world!

rojparody · Post by **rojparody** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:04 pm

DJelements wrote:I met one... I'm stuck with Just Friends™ though.

Seconded

gena · Post by **gena** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:05 pm

RojParody wrote:Ah... the maturity of this company spreads throughout! Glad to see there are some like minded people out there, and that it's not just me alone in this crazy world!

Oh no, you're defo not alone. I aim for quality and won't settle with anything less, even if it takes time.

parson · Post by **parson** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:08 pm

friendzpwnt

z.u.bee · Post by **z.u.bee** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:08 pm

i went through a 2 year dirty period were i'd bring a different girl home each week....

dont get me wrong, i'm not like that at all, it was all just to spite my ex that accused me of cheating and did so herself...

it was a sort of "look you're no longer special cos most of ya mates got it" sort of thing goin thru my mind

slowly that confidence took over me and escalated beyond my normal life it sorta turned me into a womanizer..

got fed up of man-whoring, now i'm back to my normal self.....

z.u.bee · Post by **z.u.bee** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:09 pm

^wins the best self confession post award 2008!!!!!

shane · Post by **shane** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:11 pm

i was in a relationship for three years until almost a year ago.

since then i've only liked/been liked by or hooked up with chicks with boyfriends. can be very tedious and it gets very annoying.

i finally cut myself off from that game and am in the "got none in 08" boat so far.

hopefully that'll change soon as this girl i've had my eye on recently became single, so i'm gonna give it a bit to blow over and then see what happens.

i'll take a good relationship over fuck buddies over a one night stand anyday, in that order.

right now i want something in between fuck buddies and a hardcore relationship though... whatever that is.

gena · Post by **gena** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:12 pm

z.u.bee wrote:^wins the best self confession post award 2008!!!!!

Well done u!

nesslei · Post by **nesslei** » Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:52 pm

Gena wrote:
RojParody wrote:Ah... the maturity of this company spreads throughout! Glad to see there are some like minded people out there, and that it's not just me alone in this crazy world!
Oh no, you're defo not alone. I aim for quality and won't settle with anything less, even if it takes time.

YESSSSS

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