''nice guys'' of okcupid

[Ficticious]

Page 3 of the smileys I think

And that's all I gotta say, thank you.

[Terpit]

How can you hate women?
Your mum's one

[Phigure]

There's some genuinely unpleasant sexism going on, I think, I didn't read properly coz it was all so stupid

Now wheres that one face...with that guy leaning to the side. Can't find that image.

guy leaning to the side?

you really gotta watch the big lebowski

[Ficticious]

There's some genuinely unpleasant sexism going on, I think, I didn't read properly coz it was all so stupid

Now wheres that one face...with that guy leaning to the side. Can't find that image.

guy leaning to the side?

you really gotta watch the big lebowski

I really do man, What's it about?

And who can hate woman? That'd be a terrible thing to do'

[Terpit]

It was a fairly obscure Office reference, not sure why Imtried tbf.


Its a documentary about bowling

[Ficticious]

It was a fairly obscure Office reference, not sure why Imtried tbf.


Its a documentary about bowling

omgbbqdamnit And what? sounds interesting gonna go take my sick ass to the streaming movie line and look it up.

[Ficticious]

sawtrailer,gonnagowatch.epic.

[Terpit]

It is a very good film. Enjoy

[Rappone]

some girls do somewhat enjoy being treated like shit.They're not the ones you'd want to end up being with though. Ive had a friend who had black eyes every few days from her guy punching her out. He also cheated on her countless times. I stopped talking to them both. They're married now.
Some somewhat dumb girls like being mistreated coz they're submissive by nature, and think it displays dominance from the male.

do you even realize how incredibly sexist this is?

you really think women in abusive relationships enjoy it?

Yeah, I do think some women enjoy being in abusive relationships as I witnessed it firsthand. She acts like she's pissed off but I can tell she wants it. She married him ffs. n he still beats her.

She even told my ex she likes it because she thinks she deserves gettn slapped. Behind her tears theres some perverse enjoymeny happening

IMO gthere are guys that also enjoy being treated like shit. a girl doesnt giv em the time of day, and they chase after her, tongue out. I've also seen that.

Its not just the women. Personalities go far and wide. There are no generalizations in this subject. I am far from sexist.

[Ficticious]

It is a very good film. Enjoy

It was amazing. gonna watch the second one later. So weird, I feel like I've met whoever played danny before irl.

[Terpit]

http://movieline.com/2012/06/28/big-leb ... port-fake/

[Ficticious]

no man, I meant the funny or die "dude 2" but I already just watched that. I know it's fake <3

oh well, fuck it.....man...

[Terpit]

pachoo

[Ficticious]

choopa!

[magma]

How can you hate women?
Your mum's one

[Terpit]

How can you hate women?
Your mum's one

Scene where Brent tells him to piss/fuck off is so powerful

[lovelydivot]

Remember when I said there are multiple ways to be homosexual..?

Well, I think there are multiple ways to be attracted to abuse as well...

1st one being - Maybe the guy who is passionate enough to abuse - is equally as passionate when loving...

2 - Along those same line...I heard that some women from Central America believe
that a man really loves you if he can be driven to those extremes to posses.

3 - Some people have ego problems and will not rest till they conquer their foe - That's a power issue
more akin to rape - all sexual serial killers are this...

4 - Some people are just bored with standard family structures...are looking to stir things up regardless as to if it's destructive or not...
That's what I think is happening in the movie Belle Du Jour...

Woman with a wealthy loving Dr. husband - expected to stay home in her beautiful apt. all day vaccuming...but you can only vaccum so much...
She goes off and starts working in a high end brothel while husband is at work - falls for ruthless criminal who steals just to pay for her...
Oh - the Drama...

5 - Some people have experiences in childhood that tangle pain physical/mental abuse with love and sexual desire - because they are too young to navigate
and then seek to recreate the experience because it was so new and powerful that they just want it again...sex addiction with a dark twist

Children who have been sexually abused say this is the most difficult part of surviving the experience - is NOT going back to the abuser for the service...

It is also the reason why people abuse children - to create co-operative/co-dependent slave who is too immature to escape.

[Terpit]

deep

[lovelydivot]

...and on that note

I am working on not talking my way around stuff - and just being there...

When you can clear all of that mind chatter - it's just creating and enjoying...



...this is where Kode9 sneaks in, backhands me across the mouth and then disappears...

[lovelydivot]

...then he sends me this over the holosphere...