Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 1:21 pm
by Soiree
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 1:37 pm
by Soiree
that 1 giant leap video is worth a watch
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 3:52 pm
by lovelydivot
...that french film - with the subtitles, I've probably seen it...
...all 15 of them....
But I'm sure I've missed a few....so no fear
I also like to watch things more than once
- you discover more...
It's interesting - The famous serial killer - The Boston Strangler...
actually cured himself of serial killing by killing.
By the time the authorities caught him...he had stopped murdering
and was just raping.
So - yeah I've read a book about - this thick - History of Serial Killers.
Serial Killing technically - is a sex crime.
Emancipation of women leads to more violence against women.
It's a precarious state...
It may in some way legitimize the need for prostitution...
but it can't be selfish money grubbing girls....
That re-inforces the problem...
It has to be sensitive intelligent women who understand what it is
...back to the French on that...
...trying to lose - that which binds...
I want to say - that one of the reasons
my parents have been together for so long - happily...
Is that both of have always been completely free to leave it
if ever they wanted...
and I don't mean open relationship...
I mean that - the choice to leave it easily...
was always there....
but - if there were going to do something
not just flirt or crush innocently - but actually going to adulter
- they were expected to leave it...
That was the mutual respect.
long leash
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 3:55 pm
by DiegoSapiens
lovelydivot wrote:
So - yeah I've read a book about - this thick - History of Serial Killers.
Serial Killing technically - is a sex crime.
.
so... any plans for the future?
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 4:06 pm
by lovelydivot
DiegoSapiens wrote:
lovelydivot wrote:
So - yeah I've read a book about - this thick - History of Serial Killers.
Serial Killing technically - is a sex crime.
.
so... any plans for the future?
Yeah, I'll tell you everything. lol.
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 4:25 pm
by lovelydivot
still laughing...
In high school I had 1 boyfriend - the full 4 years...very serious
and we still messed around for another 1-2 years after we broke-up
you know - random, sporadic bootycall type thing...
Our relationship ended in phases...
and at the very end - the last phase...
I felt what the children of childhood sexual abuse
had been describing...as the most difficult and damaging part...
It's where you absolutely do not want to go back to the perpetrator...
but your addicted to the sex - the ease of it.
you know - shut off your sexuality for your own good.
It's really - very difficult.
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?
Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 4:29 pm
by lovelydivot
I always say that the biggest mistake anti-drug campaignes make...
Is they forget to tell you you're probably going to like it...
and stopping something you like
- regardless as to the harm, we know it does
is the toughest part of addiction.
"Jane says...I'm done with Sergio..."
"but - if - he come back again - tell him - to wait right here for me
...try again tomorrow...."
Re: Can u be in love with someone you've never met?