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get a dog

got a yorkshire staffy and he's a massive dick

fuck this shit i'm gonna slap dionne warwick on all day

gwa wrote:fuck this shit i'm gonna slap dionne warwick on all day

are you going to cry as well?

It's ok to cry.
I know you have a soft side gwa.

magma wrote:

kidshuffle wrote:pretty sure me and the lady just split

Hope it's for the right reasons.

Yeah at the end of the day it is. Nothing is just worse than hearing "if only you were two years older"

kidshuffle wrote:

magma wrote:

kidshuffle wrote:pretty sure me and the lady just split

Hope it's for the right reasons.

Yeah at the end of the day it is. Nothing is just worse than hearing "if only you were two years older"

She said that???
WTF!!!

kidshuffle wrote:

magma wrote:

kidshuffle wrote:pretty sure me and the lady just split

Hope it's for the right reasons.

Yeah at the end of the day it is. Nothing is just worse than hearing "if only you were two years older"

so is this the time you don the hawaiian, book a flight and come see dr gwa?

EH, i had my yearly cry 2 weekends ago. only get one lot of tears per year

Pretty much. She's two years older, soldified in her career, while I'm just at the tail end of college. Different life stages, but it's all good.

Yes, it's time to get my passport in order and visit the gwa. I'm not spending a shit ton in a brothel tho

bro that was a 1 time ting. people pay me 4 sex... usually on the lines of 'ooh babe i haven't got any money' 'it's ok babes i'll get the taxi back'

have you got a pic of her? jus wanna rate your loss bro

kidshuffle wrote:Pretty much. She's two years older, soldified in her career, while I'm just at the tail end of college. Different life stages, but it's all good.

Yes, it's time to get my passport in order and visit the gwa. I'm not spending a shit ton in a brothel tho

Don't quantify that shit in your head.
You can't tell me you're just a big hole of uselessness??
Everyone has their own direction, she should be willing to allow you yours.

You're probably better off if she's not willing to love you for who you are.

career and age and stages of life have NOTHING to do with relationships.

EH pretty much summed it up tbh. i can't say she's a dick because i don't know the ins and outs of your relationship though

Can I disagree? I'm going to disagree. I disagree.

Sure, you can be so into each other that it simply doesn't matter, but love and lust tend to fade over time and at the end of the day if you're not trying to live the same way, why are you trying to do your living with each other? Find someone who wants to travel down the same path as you, grab their hand and leg it into your sunset... the right person will speed you up, not slow you down or try to change your course. Falling in love is surprisingly easy and there are billions of members of the opposite sex out there - pick the right one.

I spent the best part of 2 years trying to stay arm-in-arm with a girl that had taken a different fork in the road... the further we drifted, the more effort it took to stay together... eventually we just had to admit that we were slowing each other down.

define a different path?

travelling would be a different path.

job wise? no? studying? no?

magma wrote:I spent the best part of 2 years trying to stay arm-in-arm with a girl that had taken a different fork in the road... the further we drifted, the more effort it took to stay together... eventually we just had to admit that we were slowing each other down.

This is what happened with me and my ex. I still have a lot of feelings for her but we want to lead different lives and had to accept that neither of us were going to be able to do that whilst we were together.

Glad to see you're taking it well Kidshuffle

woke up too late to get an early walk in appointment and i stupidly signed up for something i can't get out of bang smack in the middle of the late one... i have one day of meds left.... eek

gwa wrote:define a different path?

travelling would be a different path.

job wise? no? studying? no?

Job/Studying is pretty minor, I agree. Though there's a lot more to a personality than what people do 9-5. Incredibly broadly speaking, the most successful relationships are achieved between people who have similar goals - eg. Is money important to you or are you happy to live in a leaking shack as long as you've got your friends/health? Does going to work bleary-eyed after a midweek bender sound like a life well led or a career well wasted? Do you want kids in your 20s, as late as possible or never at all? Do you want to settle down in the country or in a city? If you understand, appreciate or, best, share your partner's goals you'll naturally make the best team-mate for them to achieve them.

Most relationships I've seen go down the pan have really boiled down to the two people approaching life in a different way and not realising it. It's surprisingly how easily people to get to the "Wow! She's a female ME!" stage within a few weeks even if the person's motivations are completely different... at first the differences seem quirky, cute or even exotically sexy - after a year or so you start to wonder why the fuck she just won't act right. Who the fuck raised this girl and what the fuck is she going to do with my kids?!

As we get older we'll get 'stuck' with our partners more and more - friends age, get responsibilities, get married to boring stnuc, have kids, sell-the-fuck-out etc so the LADSLADSLADS night out and the night-in-with-the-missus start to merge into the same thing. She'll become the default setting for your company, so you'd better make sure you appreciate how each other live. Realistically, you've got to be with somebody that blows off steam in at least a compatible way to you.... and someone that'll still want to blow off steam with you when you're 64 and trying to cheer yourselves up because the kids have fucked off to Uni.

On the other hand, I'm gradually turning into an arch-perfectionist and as such am destined to die cold and alone in my piss-stained trousers muttering "No, not good enough".

magma wrote:at first the differences seem quirky, cute or even exotically sexy - after a year or so you start to wonder why the fuck she just won't act right. Who the fuck raised this girl and what the fuck is she going to do with my kids?!

Nail on the head.

You so wise, Magma

Not wanting to speak on behalf of KidShuffle, but I thought him and his missus were on opposite sides of Canada or something? Or is that someone else I'm thinking of?

yeah obviously