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Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 9:38 am
by Trichome
hudson wrote:3za wrote:Fuck your girlfriend, get rid of the bitch, so you have more time to make sweet music by yourself
A wise man once told me, "The opinions of you friends, and family on your music don't matter, cause they don't even like Digital Mystikz. So why they fuck are they going to like what you make?"
Keep on your path man.
Exactly, I wouldn't expect a metalhead to be into the ambient, repetitive shit I do, so I don't really give a fuck if they like it or not. And yeah, that's extremely disrespectful of her, kick that loser to the currrrb yo
This might be a bit random but the piano in the tune in your sig sounds exactly the same as the piano in the tune in jrisreal's sig..
anyhow, carry on with the thread
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:18 am
by Filthzilla
I'm 18, and my girl's into indie...
She seems really cool about my stuff though.
She said she liked what she heard on Soundcloud.
I told her she didn't have to say that to keep me happy but she said she meant it.
I guess I'm pretty lucky.
+ she's beautiful and the most awesome girl in the world.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:31 am
by hifi
damn . you all have girlfriends except me. /end patheticness
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:36 am
by Filthzilla
Hypefiend wrote:damn . you all have girlfriends except me. /end patheticness
Take it easy man, they come and go... don't be worried about it.
The right girl is out there. Trust.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:38 am
by hifi
Filthzilla wrote:Hypefiend wrote:damn . you all have girlfriends except me. /end patheticness
Take it easy man, they come and go... don't be worried about it.
The right girl is out there. Trust.
thanks man that gave me some confidence in finding any woman.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:53 am
by Filthzilla
How old are you then bruv?
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:14 am
by kaiori breathe
Last girlfriend I played something to said: "it kinda sucks"
...at which point I stared at her in silence for a good 3 minutes.
Kinda like this:
Anyway she got a bit creeped out and asked why I was staring at her with cold dead eyes and that's when I chased her down the stairs naked with a chainsaw... and by that I mean broke up with her.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:17 am
by Filthzilla
kaiori breathe wrote:and by that I mean broke up with her.
Wait really? If you love the girl surely you can hack the criticism?
Have a relationship is way more important than producing anyway... Imho.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:25 am
by benjam
Filthzilla wrote:kaiori breathe wrote:and by that I mean broke up with her.
Wait really? If you love the girl surely you can hack the criticism?
Having a relationship is NOT more important that producing anyway... Imho.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:40 am
by kaiori breathe
Filthzilla wrote:kaiori breathe wrote:and by that I mean broke up with her.
Wait really? If you love the girl surely you can hack the criticism?
Have a relationship is way more important that producing anyway... Imho.
In my defense, it wasn't a one off and it wasn't crit, it was just rude.
Even if I love somebody I'm not going to tolerate things like that, because the truth is, if I leave her, I can go find somebody better and be in love with them instead. Why love a good personality when you can love a great personality instead?
Relationships aren't really that important to me. They're time consuming, costly and ultimately get in the way of what I want in life.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:43 am
by wub
kaiori breathe wrote:Why love a good personality when you can love a great personality instead?
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 11:54 am
by Cubicle
kaiori breathe wrote:Filthzilla wrote:kaiori breathe wrote:and by that I mean broke up with her.
Wait really? If you love the girl surely you can hack the criticism?
Have a relationship is way more important that producing anyway... Imho.
In my defense, it wasn't a one off and it wasn't crit, it was just rude.
Even if I love somebody I'm not going to tolerate things like that, because the truth is, if I leave her, I can go find somebody better and be in love with them instead. Why love a good personality when you can love a great personality instead?
Relationships aren't really that important to me. They're time consuming, costly and ultimately get in the way of what I want in life.
QFT
Exactly my opinion aswell eventho I'm in a 2 year relationship with the best girl i've ever met.
Seems like she slurps up all my time that I could use for production.
I'm not at the point where I want to be and for that I need time to learn but whenever I get a day off I need to spend it with her.
On a side note: Whenever I'm close to finishing a track she'll be the one to hear it first.
I nag about her opinion and it's always a dry "it's good".
Even made a track for her but her interest for it was pretty low.
If I don't get support from the person whom I'm most expecting from, I wonder why I'm still trying tho.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:10 pm
by jaimelee
She loves that I enjoy doing what I do, and attempts to come up with ways of saying how good it is.
It's cute but as always the dull "I like it!.." always remains.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:13 pm
by Filthzilla
I wasn't attacking you there buddy.
I was just interested. I mean, when I said about taking their crit, I didn't mean let them walk all over you.
I think it's good the way you guys can judge it with a level head.
For me, even if she hated my tunes and told me they were awful I wouldn't love her any less. I'm just lucky in the fact that she seems to be alright with it.
But I guess everyone's in a different position.
Producing could never make me feel as alive as she does.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:28 pm
by DthUtlMrg
When my girlfriend first heard my music and dubstep in general she thought it would give her a seizure. Whenever I'm making music in the house she doesnt like the contant "bump bump" of the bass and how much time i spend on it. I learned a tip from Rusko and now when I need some time to make music, I give her some money and have her go tanning or get her nails done, enough to cover a good two hours. Ever since I started using his advice, it's been a lot better. Plus after almost two years of her hearing dubstep/drumstep and whatnot she is starting to dig it more.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:51 pm
by darkartois
This thread is making me miserable
only time I get is when she's not at home.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 12:54 pm
by RandoRando
even though this is how i look when my GF walks in on me while makin a track, she doesnt mind
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 1:09 pm
by brettheaslewood
my lady likes the idea of me making music, but when it comes down to actually writing she's all 'fucksake why are you on your computer again mer mer mer'
but when it comes to my actuall music, she enjoys it, but leading upto the point of making her listen is hard because everytime i show her im just like 'listen to this it's my best piece yet, trust!' and i get 'you say that everytime'
i guess she doesn't understand the word 'progress'
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 2:32 pm
by paradigm_x
my wifes massively supportive - she bought me my tr909!
she is a cellist tho.
Weve only worked on a couple of tracks together tho, in 8 years, were talking about that the other day.
Shes been to all of my gigs she can do. she actually nags me to do tunes if im pissing around on here or summat too.
Re: How does your girlfriend/wife feel about you producing?
Posted: Fri Jun 03, 2011 2:59 pm
by paravrais
My misses isn't too into music but I've slowly been getting her into various bits and pieces and she's really intrigued. She fully supports me making my own though, it makes her really proud when I play her my tunes lol. She thinks I'm like amazing and talented...probably cos I don't let her hear what the other cats round here are making XD