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@digezt 3some?

Dr Bloodnugget wrote:Just like a girl may spend a good 2 hours colouring her hair or getting her nails done, You spend a good couple of hours or more on production. Let her know you're serious about it. However IMO the bottom line is Production + Serious Relationship results in one not working.

It works if you don't have any other job apart from being in a relationship and producing XD

too many times i've ignored that phone call to keep working on a track

I'm a college student and she's a college graduate. She has a full time job from 8:30 to 5:30. I swear to god, the answer is to get her a job and base your schedule around when she works. Before she had a job, it would take me months to come out with a track. Now I have 10 hr days of producing.

Rusko says, "Give her 20 dollars and send her to the salon".

Keep her busy.

decklyn wrote:werd. also going through a divorce.
No compromising! Only perfect 10s from here on in.

IMO (now) If a girl doesn't support and encourage your expression and art, then wtf - that's the same as not supporting and encouraging you on a personal level, as the beats we make are reflections of our selves.

Right now, I don't think I could see anyone that I didn't meet through dubstep somehow (!). That's pretty bad. haha. I'm going to be alone forever. Well, you know, swinging aside.

Decklyn your sig track is very topical

My girlfriend isnt the biggest dubstep fan, so I normally don't have a proper chance to produce when she's around

production killed my longest and most serious relationship
KONVEX your sig is priceless. i nearly quoted that one myself

-[2]DAY_- wrote:production killed my longest and most serious relationship
KONVEX your sig is priceless. i nearly quoted that one myself

haha i know, i saw it and just knew it was one of those posts you have to sig, like a special moment in history

My Mrs just moved in with me and ive wrote more in the last 2 days of her being here than I have in the last 3 months.

I don't see what the big deal is? She writes on the blog/does her work while I write beats then we've been showing each other our work over dinner

I hear u leg, that's the thing... there is no big deal. in any situation, if scheduling fits, and the parties involved are reasonably interested in what one another is passionate about, the situation will fly. I had neither of those criteria going for me. and i don't mean interested in producing, i just mean (even marginally) interested in the bits i got down to 2track and shared with my friends. most of which had lyrics, so in some ways its even more hurtful when its ignored.

stick with cats, they dont fuck you over

E-T-F wrote:stick with cats, they dont fuck you over

^this! Can't stand girls sometimes... (like right now)
Well at least find a girl who is supportive, and actually cares about what you do...
I still haven't found that yet...

the fact this threads here shows that producers are 99% male. Why is that? would be nice to see some female producers on here.

It'd be much easier to talk to girls if they knew how to produce music lol.

VirtualMark wrote:the fact this threads here shows that producers are 99% male. Why is that? would be nice to see some female producers on here.

That's because most girls don't care...
Not to long ago I had this girl over, she was watching tv so I started to mess with a track I was working on. After a couple minutes of me tweaking some parameters, she tells me to get on my bed, and that was the end of that...

ChadDub wrote:It'd be much easier to talk to girls if they knew how to produce music lol.

true dat.
if i ever meet a girl who produces and is even remotely interested in me i'll marry her and threaten to kill her if she ever leaves me.
most girlfriends are like "oh you make music? can you play me something?" and then i'm like "no i write music, i could play you something on my bass tho"
but no one likes bassists

some were even like "i don't care about music"

well at least that one ex i will never get over agreed to sing for me. she was the only one who really was interested in the music i do and did music herself. and the hottest. and we didnt even break up she just moved away.


brb crywank

mta7388 wrote:too many times i've ignored that phone call to keep working on a track

HAHAAAAAAAH so true. Typically though, I've been lucky enough to date women that have no understanding what I'm doing but can respect it being something that's really important to me.

I stock up on cleo and cosmo, keeps her busy for a couple of hours. Chloroform works better though...

hasezwei wrote:but no one likes bassists

Distort the hell out of your bass like Death From Above. Playing bass will now get you laid.

VirtualMark wrote:the fact this threads here shows that producers are 99% male. Why is that? would be nice to see some female producers on here.

Heres a story; a label owner I know who signs acoustic artists - said to me he wants to branch out into dance music for the sister label so I sent out a few emails to local people to arrange interviews and sat in with them all for a bit of support for my mates; long story short - I invited one of my female producer friends and she basically got told "I like the tracks but since you're female we'll need to use that to market it, get something skimpy on you for the artwork otherwise no one will take it seriously if you ain't looking hot. Do you have a problem with that?"

I obviously butted in and said why do people even need to know she is female and he just looked confused.



Thats the state of this industry and I think thats why not a lot of women actively push their music because theres not many people willing to take a risk in a female artist unless there is sex-appeal to sell along side it.

Its actually sickening.

And since 90% of posts in this thread are sexist or slanderous remarks towards women; do you think the opposite gender will want to contribute to this community? Every time they mention them being a female they'll get 9089789795 fourteen year olds wanting their skype.