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firky wrote:Always makes me chuckle how women just get the fuck over it far quicker than blokes.

I don't agree with this

Pffft! It's a fact, even if you're a fat ginger lass there's some desperate tnuc that'll fuck you, even if they have to lower their standards as low as someone with dreads.

firky wrote:Pffft! It's a fact, even if you're a fat ginger lass there's some desperate tnuc that'll fuck you

Mate I would love a go at a wobbly ginger.

ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

yeah getting laid as a woman would be stupendously easy. They can even charge. stnuc.

mr. lizard wrote:ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

Yeah, agreed. I've studied this in great detail in my work "Living with your ex for nearly 3 years after breaking up".

magma wrote:

mr. lizard wrote:ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

Yeah, agreed. I've studied this in great detail in my work "Living with your ex for nearly 3 years after breaking up".

That sounds shit, why the fuck would you do that??

mr. lizard wrote:

magma wrote:

mr. lizard wrote:ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

Yeah, agreed. I've studied this in great detail in my work "Living with your ex for nearly 3 years after breaking up".

That sounds shit, why the fuck would you do that??

innit, ive got reservations about banging a girl who lives on my corridor.

mr. lizard wrote:

magma wrote:

mr. lizard wrote:ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

Yeah, agreed. I've studied this in great detail in my work "Living with your ex for nearly 3 years after breaking up".

That sounds shit, why the fuck would you do that??

Yeah that really does sound poop. I'd be a rage filled wreck in that situation.

mr. lizard wrote:ah but now you've changed it to fucking. I agree it's easier for a female to just go and get one but we're on about getting over the break up.

Which is the best way to get over someone.



(although it's a double edged sword - anyone who hasn't shagged a random and thought of their fitter ex is a liar.)

tr0tsky wrote:

firky wrote:Pffft! It's a fact, even if you're a fat ginger lass there's some desperate tnuc that'll fuck you

Mate I would love a go at a wobbly ginger.

Taste like battery acid

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There you go, wobbly ginger back left, pummel his arsehole like it was a 18oz steak.

firky wrote: (although it's a double edged sword - anyone who hasn't shagged a random and thought of their fitter ex is a liar.)

I sound like faust

firky wrote:(although it's a double edged sword - anyone who hasn't shagged a random and thought of their fitter ex is a liar.)

Word.

manillathrilla wrote:word its all great advice i just feel there are a few things you should know about my relationship. I would have married this girl in two years if we were still together i thought she was the one... Also i feel like im insane without her its hard to explain but she kept my sanity inline. I feel like im teetering on the edge.
I dont know how to talk to girls anymore and every girl i talk to at a random occasion i feel like i treat like a girlfriend which is obviously a turnoff for the girl.
its just i lost my way with women...and im not oging to lie i was the best guy this girl will ever get. the one regret i have in my entire life is the time i threw her to the ground after i heard a heartbreaking story concerning her and the guy she cheated on me with...i mean i took her and pushed her so she fell into a rock and onto her ass in public...obviously i looked like the asshole but either way i fucked up. anyways my problem now is just not knowing how to talk to a girl who isnt my girlfriend. like im used to be able to talking to my x and saying whatever i want. now when i go out and meet girls i get way too emotional/maybe even clingy.. i dont know the adjustment from a 3 year relationship to a bachelor who hasent gotten laid in two months really takes a mental toll. trust im no emo tnuc but i am more emotional than i have ever been in my life... i just dont know how to go about meeting other girls and acting like a normal guy. sometimes i doubt that i even am a normal guy. my position has caused some serious mental health problems for me. my buddies are the best. I go to boston atleast once a month and stay with them, but at my small uni i am having trouble being a normal guy and trying to find a girl. i had a good day today, drank at my buddies and takled with a girl i thought was into me. she left later that night and i texted her saying hope i see you later and tonight was fun, wahtever whatever. got no response. im in college and a different person. in highschool i was the shit all the girls liked me, i had the prettiest girl in the school as my girlfriend and i was looked up to by everyone. now im just some random heartbroken kid with mediocre looks, play no sports, get no respect other than the fact that for some reason people like me. but girls wise...after having a perfect 10 love you for 3 years then being thrown under the bus and feeling like not one single girl you are attracted to at school wants to give you the time of day has to be one of the most depressing things in the world hands down.
how the fuck do i find another girl like her and if i can i will post a picture of this girl so you can see what my x looked like because it will prove im not lying about her beauty

Yeah, it does feel like that. Especially when you're head over heels, soul mate in love with someone, it feels like you're never going to find anyone to replace her.

But that's the wrong attitude. You can't 'replace' something like that. You've got to work on something new, and build it from the ground up. And it starts with shedding the old skin of your last relationship.

And trust me, there really are plenty more women out there that will make you feel that way, just don't go rushing it while you're in such a bad mental place. Take time and enjoy being single.

And TWO MONTHS? fuck me, that's fuck all!!! Getting laid isn't the most important thing in life (ah, well, I suppose it is in the grand scheme of things, i.e. reproduction, but you know what I mean).

You know alll those weaknesses and quirks in your personality? All those things you try to cover up? They aren't your weaknesses, they're you're strengths, so make them work for you!

two months is long for me lol im moving half way around the world to get my mind cleared (new zealand) i hope thats a good idea and will help

i appreciate the advice and support from my dubstep buddies though

manillathrilla wrote:two months is long for me lol im moving half way around the world to get my mind cleared (new zealand) i hope thats a good idea and will help

Damn right it will

Nice to see support for the dude here! Cause normally this kind of thread attracts people who have no sensitivity to the issue...fuck calling anyone an emo for expressing themselves, it takes balls to do that.

I'm going through the motions of a really bad break up too...just July this year...so bad at first I didnt even use booze or drugs because they didnt help my truely escape the fucking agony in my head. I just slept as much as I possibly could....12 hours a night, get up have breakfast and try to go back to sleep again because that was the only way I could escape my mind, by jumping into a half awake dream-state...then during the day try to fall alseep again whenever I could...my stomach was so fucked up from the anxiety over the whole thing that even when I wanted to get fucked up I couldnt keep anything down. This did nothing to help though, facing up to it was what I had to do and what anyone in break up has to do. No point in delaying the enevitable.

But break-ups are about dealing with it and going through every shit emotion that comes through you. If you use any method to avoid whats going on in your head now, these things will come back to haunt you down the line (like they did with me in a previous break up)...so best sit it out RIGHT NOW. Thats the best advice I can give to you and there is no easy way to do it, try not to spend too much time alone, try as hard as you can to do the things you enjoy, especially creative things are a good distraction. Do try and see good friends and family as much as you can and be as open as you want, if they are real mates they will have the patience to listen to your shit.... You have to build up the truth to yourself again that you are a person, an individual that did exist before and will exist again outside your ex. If you find this too hard to comprehend, maybe you were too realiant on her for happiness in the first place. Which is a whole other thing to deal with and something that can only be approached outside a relationship.

And to add to the whole "theres plenty of fish in the sea" thing....damn true!!! just think about it for a minute, I guess you met this girl in your home town, or within a certain group of friends or social circle...whatever...there are so many other mirror replicas of these groups going on everywhere, dont cut yourself short....thing is that a lot of things that people think are particular to one relationship will exist in other future relationships and there are many many other chicks just as hot/cool/interesting/connection to be made... that are out there in other places that you WILL meet in the future and everything will be just fine....trust me!

Thats my two cents....do keep your head up, sit it out, thats all i can say...life goes on

You need to work on yourself right now..take a semester off or drop a class instead of wrecking your GPA -

BUT stay enrolled and spend the time to straighten up for next quarter..


My last breakup was rough - lived together for 3+ years..almost 4 really although the last year was mad arguing..

I did this thing where I couldn't go to any of our old haunts because I was avoiding him -
so I would come home from work and do bong hits till I fell out..
I was literally trying to smoke the whole thing past -
Kept my head bashed so I wouldn't get bored and be tempted to do something with him..
I needed it at the time - but at some point I had to clear it for my own health.

But I got over it - I haven't been with anyone since then, it is not that easy to land one..
especially as you get older - but I'm alright, I have real specific short term goals and that's all that matters

Even if the goals are dumb like trying to do school work well..
There are some things I need to get from school..

You can have me, am not really single but she won't mind and I like mental birds