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de-fi · Post by **de-fi** » Sun May 10, 2009 7:44 am

I'm gonna say 'wait'.

There are still, I like to believe, girls that aren't just out for a shag, and do want a proper relationship. She sounds like she just wants a bit of time to get to know you properly, and a bit of space to breath and to think about things.

I find it really unnattractive to know that a girl just hops from one relationship to another, it seems to happen all the time. Like they depend on having a boyfriend, like they need one. Conversely I find it really attractive when a girl can be their own person, not use friends like crutches and actually have their own personality.

If she's the right person and she's interested in you, take the advice of those closest and wait. Don't stop dropping hints, don't stop making contact, but wait for that last exam and then get everything out in to the open - properly this time.

Explain that you know that she wants to wait, and say that you don't mind. HOWEVER, you do want a relationship, and to be more than just friends. Ask her if she sees that happpening, and if she doesn't, well I guess there's your answer. She sounds like the romantic type, and as much as I'm sure there is a lot of pent up sexual tension between you, she'll really appreciate you giving her time - if there is of course something definite between you. I do know of one or two girls that fit into the 'oldschool romantic' category and they sound like this girl.

tl;dr WAIT

dubluke · Post by **dubluke** » Sun May 10, 2009 8:17 am

Dead Rats wrote:I try it on with anyone and everything. As long as everyone and everything has a vagina.

i've seen you in action deadrats, no subtlety mate

the wiggle baron · Post by **the wiggle baron** » Sun May 10, 2009 10:57 am

lol I think this has all gotten a bit beyond the thread explainable stage

I'll err, just let you knows as and when anything does/doesn't happen lol

Dead Rats · Post by **Dead Rats** » Sun May 10, 2009 11:41 am

dubluke wrote:
Dead Rats wrote:I try it on with anyone and everything. As long as everyone and everything has a vagina.
i've seen you in action deadrats, no subtlety mate

Slow and steady might win the race, my friend, but drunk, disorderly and criminally sarcastic is the only way to get into a girls knickers.

...I need to cut back on the drinking.

de-fi · Post by **de-fi** » Sun May 10, 2009 12:42 pm

Wachs Lyrical wrote:I would like to think that there are girls out there who aren't into the whole arrogant bastard thing, but I am really not that sure. I have been taken to town by girls my whole life and I am pretty sure it is just from being too nice.

Although there is that too...

Bloody women!

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Sun May 10, 2009 12:56 pm

De-Fi wrote:
Wachs Lyrical wrote:I would like to think that there are girls out there who aren't into the whole arrogant bastard thing, but I am really not that sure. I have been taken to town by girls my whole life and I am pretty sure it is just from being too nice.
Although there is that too...

Bloody women!

I agree, i'm still not sure either - I got taken to the cleaners (emotionally) two years ago... and it ruined me.

But then again, I think everyone needs to go through it - because i'm a totally different person now.

It messed up my firt year at Uni, I spent a whole year in a funk and distant from everyone and everything like some fucked up emo waste of space. I've spent the last year re-building my life (literally) from scratch, and now I honestly couldn't be happier - nothing gets me down, i'm always optimistic (yet somewhat realistic) and i consigned myself to never being that much of a twat again, and learning from my mistakes.

apathesis · Post by **apathesis** » Sun May 10, 2009 5:26 pm

Jazzamataz wrote:
De-Fi wrote:
Wachs Lyrical wrote:I would like to think that there are girls out there who aren't into the whole arrogant bastard thing, but I am really not that sure. I have been taken to town by girls my whole life and I am pretty sure it is just from being too nice.
Although there is that too...

Bloody women!
I agree, i'm still not sure either - I got taken to the cleaners (emotionally) two years ago... and it ruined me.

But then again, I think everyone needs to go through it - because i'm a totally different person now.

It messed up my firt year at Uni, I spent a whole year in a funk and distant from everyone and everything like some fucked up emo waste of space. I've spent the last year re-building my life (literally) from scratch, and now I honestly couldn't be happier - nothing gets me down, i'm always optimistic (yet somewhat realistic) and i consigned myself to never being that much of a twat again, and learning from my mistakes.

Similar story here!

Props, I think it does help get stuff straight in le head

the wiggle baron · Post by **the wiggle baron** » Sun May 10, 2009 5:33 pm

Well, get a hot water bottle and a horlicks on the go for me burned hearts crew. I think its basically gonna come down to tomorrow. Got plans, cant be all that arsed to explain them, but I think if I dont make or break it tomorrow then its definitely me being a fucking idiot.

On the other hand, partyhard crew get me a coooooold beverage and a street to run down all set up!

magma · Post by **magma** » Sun May 10, 2009 5:47 pm

I think Wiggles needs a little chat from a parent figure.

Pi-Krust · Post by **Pi-Krust** » Sun May 10, 2009 9:31 pm

Fucking hell man reading this thread has turned me into an emotional wreck.Get it sorted a.s.a.p man!,I can't take much more of this torment.

the wiggle baron · Post by **the wiggle baron** » Sun May 10, 2009 9:43 pm

Well, unless something throws a spanner in the works beforehand (and no, turkish would no longer be a spanner

It would have to be something pretty big to throw this one off) tomorrow should be the one.

No idea what im going to say, but its going to involve me explaining myself, saying I think it would be a huge mistake for nothing to happen, then I think the plan may very well be after ive said my piece, or possibly cutting myself off during just say something along the lines of ah fucking hell and just getting involved with the face charge.

It aint gonna be like last time though, that was a fairly vague me making it known that im an Auria fan, just to try and hopefully stop friend zone type things happening during exams, and go for it all or nothing basically.

Pretty stoked to be honest

jrj2020 · Post by **jrj2020** » Mon May 11, 2009 12:59 am

You better be hitting that tonight!

magma · Post by **magma** » Mon May 11, 2009 9:39 am

Wachs Lyrical wrote:Why don't you print this whole thread off and just hand it to her and walk out the room lol?

I like this idea.

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Mon May 11, 2009 10:23 am

Magma wrote:
Wachs Lyrical wrote:Why don't you print this whole thread off and just hand it to her and walk out the room lol?
I like this idea.

This idea would have you in St Johns by tomorrow evening... do it. free room, free tv, free drugs > girls.

did · Post by **did** » Mon May 11, 2009 10:29 am

it's gonna kill me off when you realise she's a bloke

jazzamataz · Post by **jazzamataz** » Mon May 11, 2009 10:31 am

DID wrote:it's gonna kill me off when you realise she's a bloke

Haha. Deep.

Jak The lad · Post by **Jak The lad** » Mon May 11, 2009 10:34 am

This shit is so intense, i think im getting a clue

did · Post by **did** » Mon May 11, 2009 11:21 am

JTL wrote:This shit is so intense, i think im getting a clue

epic. just epic.

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