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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 4:53 pm
by bellybelle
TheEvilGirl wrote:dagger to the heart!....great friends and music yea...but those ill have either way...
when youre dancing with ur friends to some awesome music and u look around and ur the only single one...its kinda...i dunno...sad.
i dont want to seem like i NEED someone...but...it would be nice to have.
dagger salted, pushed through, and twisted for effect.
Nah I feel you on that whole needing thing. I've been single for a few weeks shy of a year now and sometimes it gets a lil heady when you're the only one in the midst of your friends, who then say to you, "Oh don't worry! You're amazing! Any man would be lucky to have you." Hehehehe
Seriously tho...I would rather be by myself than in a bad relationship. The closeness, physical and emotional intimacy, etc. yeah thats nice....but the majority of my relationships didn't have that and thus didn't work.
So.....I made the decision last year to not get involved unless it really felt right...not enamored and making things seem right or only looking at the stuff I want to and ignoring the rest. And I really do feel that, if it happens, it will be amazing.
At this point, I'm not willing to settle for less than a spellbinding smolder. I'm choosing to be single now. And I think I'm making the right choice.
The only thing I miss is making out. A good smoochfest is the best vitamin on the block.
Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 5:14 pm
by theevilgirl
bellybelle wrote:TheEvilGirl wrote:dagger to the heart!....great friends and music yea...but those ill have either way...
when youre dancing with ur friends to some awesome music and u look around and ur the only single one...its kinda...i dunno...sad.
i dont want to seem like i NEED someone...but...it would be nice to have.
dagger salted, pushed through, and twisted for effect.
Nah I feel you on that whole needing thing. I've been single for a few weeks shy of a year now and sometimes it gets a lil heady when you're the only one in the midst of your friends, who then say to you, "Oh don't worry! You're amazing! Any man would be lucky to have you." Hehehehe
Seriously tho...I would rather be by myself than in a bad relationship. The closeness, physical and emotional intimacy, etc. yeah thats nice....but the majority of my relationships didn't have that and thus didn't work.
So.....I made the decision last year to not get involved unless it really felt right...not enamored and making things seem right or only looking at the stuff I want to and ignoring the rest. And I really do feel that, if it happens, it will be amazing.
At this point, I'm not willing to settle for less than a spellbinding smolder. I'm choosing to be single now. And I think I'm making the right choice.
The only thing I miss is making out. A good smoochfest is the best vitamin on the block.
LOVE making out! my fave foreplay!
but yea...
i guess i wouldnt know what its like to be in a bad relationship
ive never been in a real relationship...but...that whole cant miss what u never had b.s. doesnt fly.
better to have loved and lost.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:24 am
by nousd
Gena wrote:Love... yes pls... I'm starting to forget...
Hard to believe.
Maybe you could unwind and invert.
Know what you mean tho.
I stay in practice by, just before going to sleep, saying "I love you"
briefly wonder who it could apply to
and sleep soundly.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 2:42 am
by djelements
SD5 wrote:Gena wrote:Love... yes pls... I'm starting to forget...
Hard to believe.
Maybe you could unwind and invert.
Know what you mean tho.
I stay in practice by, just before going to sleep, saying "I love you"
briefly wonder who it could apply to
and sleep soundly.
I could be that application.
I love you too.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 3:03 am
by nousd
Aw shucks Jellymints.
Now I've got someone tonight.
(but I don't think I'll sleep so well)
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 3:12 am
by tempest
im so fucked my girl broke up with me after i took her for granted for way too long now i realise what i had now that its gone and she just says that shes confused and thinking but shes moved out for the moment... but then she comes and stays with me last night.. still won't say whether i have a chance with her or not so im constantly tortured whether to give her time and ignore her (which is fucking hard) or to go bring her flowers and shit like that in an attempt to woo her back... baaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
/end my bad grammatical spiel of despair
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 3:40 am
by nesslei
tempest wrote:im so fucked my girl broke up with me after i took her for granted for way too long now i realise what i had now that its gone and she just says that shes confused and thinking but shes moved out for the moment... but then she comes and stays with me last night.. still won't say whether i have a chance with her or not so im constantly tortured whether to give her time and ignore her (which is fucking hard) or to go bring her flowers and shit like that in an attempt to woo her back... baaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
/end my bad grammatical spiel of despair
if the issue is taking her for granted, stop taking her for granted. send her flowers if you wanna send her flowers. but only because you want to - not because you hope the flowers will win her back. cos it won't be flowers alone that does it.
it's a difficult situation because i ended my relationship of 3.5 years for similar reasons. to be honest i had made my mind up by the time i broke up with him so there was no going back, but i appreciated my ex's willingness to at least try and talk about why things had ended etc.
give her space, but let her know you are prepared to talk stuff over if she wants to.
hope that makes sense.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 3:41 am
by kamala
tempest wrote:im so fucked my girl broke up with me after i took her for granted for way too long now i realise what i had now that its gone and she just says that shes confused and thinking but shes moved out for the moment... but then she comes and stays with me last night.. still won't say whether i have a chance with her or not so im constantly tortured whether to give her time and ignore her (which is fucking hard) or to go bring her flowers and shit like that in an attempt to woo her back... baaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
/end my bad grammatical spiel of despair
hahahaha you sound just like my ex boyfriend.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 4:43 am
by kamala
and if you want her back go for the flowers, and keep it that way. dont slip back into old habits
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 5:16 am
by tempest
nesslei wrote:tempest wrote:im so fucked my girl broke up with me after i took her for granted for way too long now i realise what i had now that its gone and she just says that shes confused and thinking but shes moved out for the moment... but then she comes and stays with me last night.. still won't say whether i have a chance with her or not so im constantly tortured whether to give her time and ignore her (which is fucking hard) or to go bring her flowers and shit like that in an attempt to woo her back... baaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
/end my bad grammatical spiel of despair
if the issue is taking her for granted, stop taking her for granted. send her flowers if you wanna send her flowers. but only because you want to - not because you hope the flowers will win her back. cos it won't be flowers alone that does it.
it's a difficult situation because i ended my relationship of 3.5 years for similar reasons. to be honest i had made my mind up by the time i broke up with him so there was no going back, but i appreciated my ex's willingness to at least try and talk about why things had ended etc.
give her space, but let her know you are prepared to talk stuff over if she wants to.
hope that makes sense.
yeah that makes sense... i really don't know if all hope is lost... she wont tell me if shes made her mind up.. tis hard to give her space.. might give it till the weekend then give her some flowers and chocolate and plead my case again :p
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 5:22 am
by tempest
kamala wrote:tempest wrote:im so fucked my girl broke up with me after i took her for granted for way too long now i realise what i had now that its gone and she just says that shes confused and thinking but shes moved out for the moment... but then she comes and stays with me last night.. still won't say whether i have a chance with her or not so im constantly tortured whether to give her time and ignore her (which is fucking hard) or to go bring her flowers and shit like that in an attempt to woo her back... baaaaaaaahhhhhhhh
/end my bad grammatical spiel of despair
hahahaha you sound just like my ex boyfriend.
yeah it seems like a million people have been through this shit yet i was too dumb to see it happening... now i hear about it in every cheesy fucking love song...
some deep shit.. feels quite pathetic
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 5:33 am
by thief
datura wrote:..is a burning thing
and it makes a fiery ring
That's only
certain types of love surely?
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:07 am
by deamonds
IS NOT REAL, just infactuation...
never been in love, only with money and vinyl, yet to experience that "feeling"
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:08 am
by frebentos
deamonds wrote:
never been in love, only with money and vinyl, yet to experience that "feeling"
overrated, you can get the same feeling from a posh wank
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:11 am
by von
lol @ posh. and what's that when its at home?
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:11 am
by deamonds
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:12 am
by frebentos
Von wrote:lol @ posh. and what's that when its at home?
on your knees on a silk cushion with your pornos in a half moon around you, a glass bottle of irn bru and a cigarette laying by your side for afterwards,..condom optional (not my bag).
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:13 am
by frebentos
more of a middle class wank but your getting there...
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:25 am
by nousd
frebentos wrote:deamonds wrote:
never been in love, only with money and vinyl, yet to experience that "feeling"
overrated, you can get the same feeling from a posh wank
Man, that is just so wrong in my experience. Love is a fundament. Opens the soul to what is beyond the singleton. The pain and conniptions come from the cracks in our illusory shells.
Now, being in love with someone with whom you can have relaxed sex....everyone deserves that even if they are prepared to accept a posh wank.
Posted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:25 am
by von
frebentos wrote:Von wrote:lol @ posh. and what's that when its at home?
on your knees on a silk cushion with your pornos in a half moon around you, a glass bottle of irn bru and a cigarette laying by your side for afterwards,..condom optional (not my bag).
Lol @ THAT
Lol "that goooood jerk.. that 'aint nobody in the house' jerk"
