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what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:29 am
by Eat Bass
im going through a rough stage with my girlfriend of 4 years. basically i ddint hook up with anyone when i entered collage because of her. however i was distant for a while and not loving. then we went through some shit where i kissed another girl and my girlfriend begged forme back when i was ready to give up (partially due to her own drama). while trying to get over my girlfriend i realized that i loved her more than i thought, despite the drama. so i gave her another chance. then she treated me like shit for 5 months because i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance. then after a while some shit happened and after she begged for me back and treated me like shit. then she became distant and said she wanted space. i've been trying to give her space but its hard when she she the love of my life and i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
the thing is her drama drove me apart from her. but then after trying to get over her i realized that i truley do love her. but now shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
idk i love this girl so much and have been there for her through thick an d thin but i feel like shes giving up now. but i gave up on her at one point too≥ i just feel like once she matures she is the girl for me. but idk...do you guys have any advice for a situation like this? i want to crearte space to help the situation but at the same time i dont because im afraid. like i said. iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
Yeah i know this is typical diary lyons. but im actually looking for advice. my heart is broken.
ninja edit: sorry im drunk so some shit doesn't make sense but i feel this way on the reg so i need to do something about it.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:37 am
by bABGzus
Eat Bass wrote:im going through a rough stage with my girlfriend of 4 years. basically i ddint hook up with anyone when i entered collage because of her. however i was distant for a while and not loving. then we went through some shit where i kissed another girl and my girlfriend begged forme back when i was ready to give up (partially due to her own drama). while trying to get over my girlfriend i realized that i loved her more than i thought, despite the drama. so i gave her another chance. then she treated me like shit for 5 months because i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance. then after a while some shit happened and after she begged for me back and treated me like shit. then she became distant and said she wanted space. i've been trying to give her space but its hard when she she the love of my life and i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
the thing is her drama drove me apart from her. but then after trying to get over her i realized that i truley do love her. but now shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
idk i love this girl so much and have been there for her through thick an d thin but i feel like shes giving up now. but i gave up on her at one point too≥ i just feel like once she matures she is the girl for me. but idk...do you guys have any advice for a situation like this? i want to crearte space to help the situation but at the same time i dont because im afraid. like i said. iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
Yeah i know this is typical diary lyons. but im actually looking for advice. my heart is broken.
ninja edit: sorry im drunk so some shit doesn't make sense but i feel this way on the reg so i need to do something about it.
Did she get your dog?
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:37 am
by Terpit
Eat Bass wrote:i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:43 am
by Eat Bass
no she didnt get the dog... she made her mom buy her the exact same breed. yes very immature but i love her and she is so hot.
edit; and hey by the way you try going through 3 years of college without hooking up with another girl even though the opportunity presents itself quite often. its not easy. and what scares me is she's a model so the opportunity presentes it to herself a lot more frequently than me.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:45 am
by wub
Eat Bass wrote: i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance
Eat Bass wrote: i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
Eat Bass wrote:shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
Eat Bass wrote: iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
You sound like a real catch, I can't imagine why she's rejecting you.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:47 am
by Eat Bass
wub wrote:Eat Bass wrote: i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance
Eat Bass wrote: i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
Eat Bass wrote:shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
Eat Bass wrote: iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
You sound like a real catch, I can't imagine why she's rejecting you.
ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:49 am
by bABGzus
You should make your dog date her dog first. If that works out it's meant to be.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:49 am
by wub
Eat Bass wrote:ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Compelling argument you make there, Lyons...and she still said no? Damn, she is an
ice queen.
Try leading with the "countless hookups I've turned down [for you]" angle, see if that gets you anywhere.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:57 am
by Eat Bass
wub wrote:Eat Bass wrote:ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Compelling argument you make there, Lyons...and she still said no? Damn, she is an
ice queen.
Try leading with the "countless hookups I've turned down [for you]" angle, see if that gets you anywhere.
ok so i've made out with one girl in 4 years that wasnt my girlfriend. she made out with two after it happened in pure spite. then begged for me back after i was pushed away for 2+ years of her ridiculous drama. and i mean ridiculous. like a lot of illogical bitch drama that is morally wrong in so many ways. but i still love her for some reason. even though she is a stuck up bitch for a long time she was the most loving person to just me and made our long distance relationship work, solely based on her own efforts due to my loss of license.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 7:57 am
by Eat Bass
wub wrote:Eat Bass wrote:ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Compelling argument you make there, Lyons...and she still said no? Damn, she is an
ice queen.
Try leading with the "countless hookups I've turned down [for you]" angle, see if that gets you anywhere.
ok so i've made out with one girl in 4 years that wasnt my girlfriend. she made out with two after it happened in pure spite. then begged for me back after i was pushed away for 2+ years of her ridiculous drama. and i mean ridiculous. like a lot of illogical bitch drama that is morally wrong in so many ways. but i still love her for some reason. even though she is a stuck up bitch for a long time...for a while she was the most loving person to just me and made our long distance relationship work, solely based on her own efforts due to my loss of license.
edit: honestly wub if you knew the shit she pulled you would tell me to never talk to this bitch again. but i still love her and behind the scenes she was the most loving person ever. she jut has daddy issues.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:00 am
by garethom
Eat Bass wrote:wub wrote:Eat Bass wrote: i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance
Eat Bass wrote: i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
Eat Bass wrote:shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
Eat Bass wrote: iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
You sound like a real catch, I can't imagine why she's rejecting you.
ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Doubt she gives a fuck about how faithful your friends have been.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:05 am
by Eat Bass
garethom wrote:Eat Bass wrote:wub wrote:Eat Bass wrote: i kissed another girl but i was the one who said i will give her another chance
Eat Bass wrote: i sacrificed countless hookups for her.
Eat Bass wrote:shes so angry at me for kissing another girl she wont treat me right and now seems like she doesn't want to be with me.
Eat Bass wrote: iv dated this girl for 4 years and only cheated (making out) once.
You sound like a real catch, I can't imagine why she's rejecting you.
ok wub you try dating a girl from 17-21 and only kiss one girl in between. im not perfect but none of my friends have been this faithful.
Doubt she gives a fuck about how faithful your friends have been.
ok mate but you dont know how i was treated and pushed away for the longest time. only my best friends have seen that.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:11 am
by wub
Eat Bass wrote:ok so i've made out with one girl in 4 years that wasnt my girlfriend. she made out with two after it happened in pure spite.
Spiteful same sex revenge experimentation? Sounds hot...did you get to watch?
Eat Bass wrote:even though she is a stuck up bitch
Classy.
Eat Bass wrote:edit: honestly wub if you knew the shit she pulled you would tell me to never talk to this bitch again. but i still love her and behind the scenes she was the most loving person ever. she jut has daddy issues.
So wear Old Spice and stick it in her ass...seriously mate, this is some weak ass beta male shit you're posting. You both sound equally fucked up from what you've been saying. Trying to justify your commitment by stating how many people you've turned down? Oh bravo...it's like that Chris Rock sketch where he talks about people bragging they've not been to jail.
And now putting it back on her for having 'daddy issues'...and she's the one that's overreacting over your behaviour?
Eat Bass wrote:ok mate but you dont know how i was treated and pushed away for the longest time. only my best friends have seen that.
Yet here you are trying to justify your actions and her subsequent reactions to a bunch of folk on the Internet...you can't expect sympathy when you're posting what you're posting and then resorting to a "you don't know the whole story, man" response to cover up the glaring issues with what you've said.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:16 am
by Sexual_Chocolate
move on.
its the best advice you will get on here tbh.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:22 am
by Eat Bass
Nevalo wrote:move on.
its the best advice you will get on here tbh.
yeah i know man. its just hard after i was ready to give up but i gave it one more chance out of my pure love an compassion and positive belief that she would change. but as soon as i gave her that chance she treated me ike shit after begging for me back.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:23 am
by incnic
eat bass u r a wanker m8 lol
fuk off with ur shite prolems cos im trying to classofy dungeon vs classic dubstep ffs
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Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:25 am
by wub
"Our souls were sidechained together...then she used a detuned sawtooth wave on my HEART"
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:26 am
by incnic
lol
btw east bass i hope ur and ur gfs dogs shit in ur shoes
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:29 am
by Eat Bass
i know i give that impression. i am a bit conceited and douche baggy. however, once you get to know me im one of the most real and trust worthy friends you can have.
Re: what do you guys do when heart broken?
Posted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 8:33 am
by Eat Bass
not too mention i have a 3.82 gpa in college and am graduating soon. most cant conceptualize the fun that i have yet the ability i retain to get straight A+'s , mostly. but there's my conceded side poking through.